Christmas!! But...

Christmas is just 2 days away, but i'm enjoying 0 of it, thanks to my nose... what a holiday!! I want my sunshine back to cure my nosey-nose but it's all rainy here!!! blasphemy... Supposed to stayover at mom's place with  En but the plan is gonna get blown if our one-of-a-stupid-kind flu doesn't get lost...

2 months more to the last day of my vegetarian meals.... and coincidentally, it falls on Chinese New Year!! kekeke~Surprisingly, i'm able to stick to it and the portion of each meal decreases too. I suppose i'm gonna stick to it even after CNY excluding fish esp. salmon sashimi!!! =D gosh, i miss salmon sooooo muchhhh!!!! the first thing I'm gonna splurge on is salmon  after completing my vegetarian schedule... wahahhaahah!!!

Pray pray...

Kelvin gg is still in NUH... all of us are so worried about him... transferred from AH's ICU to NUH's HDU... just transferred to normal ward today... hais... helping him to 祈福 by being vegetarian for 3 months. 我相信我能办得到. That's all i can do for him anyway. Fortunately, yt area has a damn nice vegetarian stall... ^_^ don't mind eating...

dad's leg is still in a cast.. medical rv in dec... i dont really like these 2 months... BUT!! am still gonna be optimistic!! ^_^

Impromptu!!!

A very impromptu decision i made today... My long locks are long gone, replaced by short, very shor hair now!! Shiok, and more shiok!! LOL~ The last time i had short hair was 10 years ago, and my current hair is even shorter than that though part of it is longer since the style is not even intentionally. God, i love LOVE my hair now!! Super thankful for the impromtu-ness!! haha!!!! webcam w Adel earlier, she was shocked!! didn't expect my hair to be this short when i told her i chopped my locks off.... =P Am gonna wait for my hair to grow few inches longer, and another change of hairstyle for new year!! ^_^

Oh, i LOVE Hairlistic Team, w Nic as my hairstylist... all the way!!! Big thankies to Lav who intro her hairstylist to me!! Muacks!!

大悲咒

藏语的音译:

 

南摩惹纳达拉雅雅，南摩阿里雅佳纳，

萨嘎拉贝勒佳纳，

尤哈拉佳雅，达他嘎达雅，

阿啦哈帝，桑雅桑布达雅，

纳摩萨噜哇，达他嘎提贝，阿啦哈达呗，

桑雅桑布提呗，南摩阿里雅阿哇噜格帝，

秀哇啦雅，布地萨埵哇雅，

玛哈萨埵哇雅，玛哈嘎噜尼加雅，

达地雅他嗡，达啦、达啦、

提力、提力、杜露、杜露、

易笛威、易笛、加列、加列、

不啦加列、不啦加列、

固苏美、固苏玛哇垒、易利、密利积地、作哈啦、玛巴、纳雅、梭哈

好... 就這樣...

我要的, 得到了.. 不過,只有一半... 給自己時間, 兩個星期後, 如果真的還是沒聲沒息, 敲門的時間了.

罪惡感, 對一些人來說還真是強烈. 可以因為罪惡感 (我覺得), 就能把正在逕行的事, 說不干就不干. 真不知道在搞什麼. 這樣做, 把其他人當成什麼了. 是否因為我們是女的, 就能把我們呼之而來喚之而去? 還真以為每個女人都有一樣的想法, 都無所謂?

Anyway, JX's gf went back to Kuching after coming to SG for his convocation and mid-autumn festival. She's nice, just kinda blur.. =X Should be dropping by again next mth end for JX gg's bday.

看破紅塵。。。

可能吧。。 看破紅塵。。 感覺上，好像真的不能再愛上人了。喜歡一個人，我想我還能做得到，不過如果有一天，哥哥們問我是否愛上了人，我會說不可能。哥覺得是因為往古，造成了恐懼，導致心裏建造了圍墻。

恐懼，可能也可能不。雖然有枕邊人的感覺真的很棒，不過不一定需要在一段戀情裏。宗旨只是有人陪伴而已。

7th month is over!!

Ghost festival is finally over!! Goodness, i had been eating, drinking, eating, drinking.. alcohol consumption is HUGE!! hahaha~ but it's with dad and his colleagues, so all is still good. ^_^

Last round was on Friday, 2 tables for SMRT @ Kaki Bukit Crescent. We were the noisiest of all.. LOL~ we didn't create a scene or anything, just highest level of enjoyment.. other tables were affected by our enjoyment anyway. Saw uncle Chow finally!! Last time i saw him was during my wedding... uncle Soh & Tok as well. ^_^ Uncle Chow got aimed like mad... by me, dad, SK Lim, Steven, Vincent, etc. practically 3/4 of the our 2 tables.. he's quite "high" when we were leaving, i think carlsberg is not his type...
Anyway, the moment we were there, the next table started to get my attention, i siam & siam.. so whenever dad & uncles went for a smoke, i'll just go with them even though i don't smoke... but Bro Steven still nudged at me and said "next table is calling for u".. i was like "i know!!! i siam already... u still... -.-". For the entire event, that table was action-packed, trying all ways & means to get my view.. LOL! I think prolly is caused by my own enjoyment of drinking with my dad's colleagues cum friends via emptying glasses of beer at 1 go.. =P so it became that they were cheering for me for all my empty glasses.. hahaha!! I had totally no idea how much i drank when dad asked me.. =P

Near end of event, one of the guys came over & said wanna jio a glass with me, i'm already having my round with uncle chow anyway so i kinda ignored him, so uncle Lam went over his table after that and said "u wanna drink with her? Can. You drink with me first." ROFL~ Epic, he didn't come over in the end.. wahahaha!! And he still asked Chow if we are going for 2nd round when i'm beside him, Chow was like "2nd round? 我要回家了..." haha~ he asked Chow to bring me go... he replied can, only if he agrees. Then i added all must agree then can.. That guy was like, "wah.. so difficult to ask you out ah?" replied was "of course" ROFL!!

All of us were talking about this in the bus to Eunos.. hhaha!! I was telling dad that that group action-packed only... Uncle Lam asked them they don't dare already... if really 2nd round, Uncle Lam & Peter will definitely make sure they KO..flat.. hahha!!

Went koptiam for tcss after that, all were continuing 1-2 mugs of beer except for 门神, sis pauline & me with my teh o kosong. ^_^ The best alcohol-get-lost drink for me..

The happiest 7th month!!

not in a good mood..seriously.

Phone's screen is crashed... like spider web... dropped it screen down onto walkpath and *bamm* Happened in the morning during C7 site walk... what an awesome event to start my day, seriously.

Next thing. I'm really unhappy about someone. What? An eye for an eye? You bloody got it. Indeed, I made you angry, so angry. But i apologised. Now, i merely asked for an opinion for a photo and i'm being ignored. You are busy, and i understand that perfectly. But at least let me know that you ain't free or it's not convenient so I won't wait for your reply like an idiot cause it matters. You matter. The heck with this...

Anyway, am getting Ryan to re-touch 1 photo... i love it so much that i wanna post it up... but there's a certain thing to be hidden... =P

Dream photoshoot is done...

I managed to get it done... Still don't believe i really did it!! hahah~ what an awesome experience though it was tiring to wake up at 5.30am which i don't even wake up so early for work.. (>.<), makeup & hairdo, and the entire shoot took almost 6 hours till 2+pm. BIG special thanks to Lavania for giving her full support on this, doing my makeup & hairdo and driving me to Jayvis's place, Ryan & Jayvis for making this come true and their patience and waking up so damn early cause of this *_*
well, i've got 1 wish done, so if i'm gonna die tomorrow, at least i'll die with 1 lesser regret.. ^_^

and now it's time for... anxiety!! A dance performance tonight for Jaya's friend's 60th birthday.. and it's my very first choreo.. my god!!! Anxiety level risens!! Hope it goes well and hope they like it...

What Makes a 'Type A' an Individual?

From: Eat Right For Your Type: Type A

What makes Me Me and You You?


This is the question that is at the heart of the genetic puzzle. It is also central to our exploration of blood types. The key is genetic heritage - the story line of your life. Even though you are living in the 21st century, you share a common bond with your ancestors. The genetic information that resulted in their particular characteristics has been passed on to you.

People who are A blood type have a different set of characteristics than people who are Type O - they are susceptible to different diseases, they should eat different foods and exercise in a completely different manner. Some believe that personality is influenced by blood type! Dr. D'Adamo, author of the best selling books Eat Right for Your Type and Live Right for Your Type, among others, gives us a blueprint for living in his books. Read on to learn more about the Type A individual..


Type A History

The Type A emerges into the 21st century with many more complex challenges than their ancestors could have imagined. The key factor in the development of Type A can be traced to the struggle for survival long ago, when there was a rapidly dwindling supply of hunting game stock. Having exhausted the great game herds of Africa, humans pushed farther out from their ancestral home into Europe and Asia. The cultivation of grains and livestock changed everything. For the first time, people were able to forego the hand to mouth lifestyle of the hunter/gatherer and establish stable communities. Over time the adaptations that produced Blood Type A were based on the need to fully utilize nutrients from carbohydrate sources. These biological adaptations can still be observed today in Type A's digestive structure. Low levels of hydrochloric acid in the stomach and high intestinal disaccharide digestive enzyme levels permit the more efficient digestion of carbohydrates. According to Dr. D'Adamo, these are also the very factors, along with low levels of intestinal alkaline phosphatase, that make it difficult for Type As to digest and metabolize animal protein and fat.


What Makes Type A Unique

Many neurochemical factors in the Type A genetic disposition favor a structured, rhythmic, harmonious life, surrounded by a positive, supportive community. The harried pace and increased sense of isolation experienced by so many in today's society often make these needs difficult to achieve. Type A best exemplifies the powerful interconnections between mind and body. This was vital to the shift away from hunting and procurement to building and growing. However, Type A's more internalized relationship to stress, which served your ancestors well, can be a challenge for the modern Type A. The Blood Type Diet's proactive mix of lifestyle strategies, hormonal equalizers, gentle exercise and specialized dietary guidelines will maximize your overall health; decrease your natural risk factors for cancer, diabetes and cardiovascular disease. The result: high performance, mental clarity, greater vitality and increased longevity.


Type A Diet

"When we discuss 'diet,' we are not talking necessarily about a weight loss plan, that's a side benefit to following this plan. We are actually discussing diet in the more traditional sense, meaning a way to eat," explains, Dr. D'Adamo. Type As flourish on a vegetarian diet - if you are accustomed to eating meat, you will lose weight and have more energy once you eliminate the toxic foods from your diet. Many people find it difficult to move away from the typical meat and potato fare to soy proteins, grains and vegetables. But it is particularly important for sensitive Type As to eat their foods in as natural a state as possible: pure, fresh and organic. "I can't emphasize enough how this critical dietary adjustment can be to the sensitive immune system of Type A. With this diet you can supercharge your immune system and potentially short circuit the development of life threatening diseases."


Handling Stress

In this busy, ever changing world, it's almost impossible to avoid every day stress. Type As have a naturally high level of the stress hormone cortisol and produce more in response to stressful situations. Cortisol is released in 24-hour patterns, typically in the early morning between six and eight A.M. with a gradual decrease during the day. It helps to cue the body's other cyclical rhythms. Due to the naturally elevated cortisol in type As, additional stress often manifests in several ways; disrupted sleep patterns, daytime brain fog, increased blood viscosity (thickening), and promotes muscle loss and fat gain. In extreme cases in Type As, stress can manifest in more serious ways, causing obsessive-compulsive disorder, insulin resistance and hypothyroidism. To help balance cortisol levels, Dr. D'Adamo recommends that you limit sugar, caffeine and alcohol. Don't skip meals, especially breakfast; eating smaller, more frequent meals will also help to stabilize blood sugar levels. He also points out that the following factors are known to increase cortisol levels and increase mental exhaustion for Type As - be aware and limit your exposure when possible:

Crowds of people
Loud noise
Negative emotions
Smoking
Strong smells or perfumes
Too much sugar and starch
Overwork
Violent TV and movies
Lack of sleep
Extreme weather conditions (hot or cold)


Calming Exercise - The Critical Component for Health and Well Being

Heightened cortisol levels make it harder for Type As to recover from stress. Research has demonstrated that overall cortisol levels can be lowered through a regular program of exercises that provide focus and calming effects. Make these activities a regular - and life saving - part of your lifestyle. Dr. D'Adamo recommends, Hatha Yoga, Tai Chi and Meditation and Deep Breathing Exercises. Meditation has been studied for its effects on stress hormones. It was found that after meditation, serum cortisol levels were significantly reduced. Writes Dr. D'Adamo, "While it's fine for Type As to participate in more intense physical activity when healthy and in good condition, be aware that these forms of exercise do not act as safety valves for stress in your blood type. I have seen Type As excel at weight lifting and aerobic activities, but you have to be careful about not overtraining, as that will actually raise cortisol levels."


The Personality Connection

Blood Type is a marker of individuality - and perhaps of personality as well. In Japan, it has long been believed that Blood Type is an indicator of personality - in fact, you are likely to be asked your blood type in a job interview or while out on a date with a potential mate! In a study conducted by Dr. D'Adamo in 1999, he found some interesting connections between blood type and personality. Type As most often described themselves in ways related to the following characteristics: sensitive to the needs of others, good listeners, detail oriented, analytical, creative and inventive.


Live Right!

In addition to exercise, stress management and eating the right foods, here are some key lifestyle strategies for Type A individuals.

Cultivate creativity and expression in your life
Establish a consistent daily schedule
Go to bed no later than 11:00 PM and sleep for eight hours or more. Don't linger in bed, as soon as you get up, get going!
Take at least two breaks of twenty minutes each during the work day. Stretch, take a walk, do deep breathing exercises or meditate.
Don't skip meals
Eat more protein at the start of the day, less at the end
Don't eat when you are anxious
Eat smaller, more frequent meals.
Engage in thirty to forty five minutes of calming exercise at least three times a week.
Plan regular screening for heart disease and cancer prevention.
Always chew food thoroughly to enhance digestion. Low stomach acid makes digestion more difficult.

Are you insecure in your relationship?

*Taken from: Yahoo!

My friend Irra from school called last evening; she was in tears, her very loving husband of the past one year has asked her to give up her childhood friend of the last 20 years. Why you ask? Her friend is a guy and her husband is just not comfortable with the rapport the both of them share.
Needless to say, I was outraged and thought of many improper things to say to her husband. That would have just added fuel to the fire, so I spoke to her for a little while and told her that I am sure she can explain and allay his insecurity. She told me she had tried explaining to her husband that had she actually been in love with her friend she would have married him instead. That discussion obviously did not go down well.

To get a different perspective on the issue I asked another friend of mine who is a modern-day Gandhari when it comes to making sacrifices in relationships. Her take was very different from mine, according to her, compromises were integral in every marriage and if your spouse is uncomfortable with a particular friend, what's the big deal about giving them up?

Here were too very opposite ways of dealing with modern-day relationship complexities, so I decided to call my friend who is a counselor to get her view on the issue. According to her, while every couple decides on their own set of relationship priorities, there is a fundamental flaw in what my friend had been asked to do. The thing about insecurity is that it stems because of the lack of trust between two people and not because of the presence of a third person. She may agree to give up her guy friend today but insecurity is sure to manifest itself in some other form.

Signs of insecurity are easy to spot, Shahana Nair Joshi says in her article on PDA (Public Display of Affection), "The inappropriate display of affection to the point of public embarrassment and awkwardness stems from nothing but an innate insecurity about your partner and what you share."
We know the serial offenders, we also know people who are never known to very demonstrative about their affections and yet, in the presence of a friend from the opposite sex they indulge in PDA. It's like an affirmation for them, that you might be my significant other's best friend but only I have the societal license to be physically close to my partner.

Relationship gurus are of the belief that insecurity breeds insecurity unless trust is established between the couple. Experts also say that every relationship is unique in its own way and if you find yourself constantly comparing your relationship with that of others, you are actually insecure about yourself or the equation you share with your partner.

Every relationship needs breathing space; as much as you need 'we time' in a relationship, it is equally important to factor in 'me time'. Some couples revel in the fact that they like doing everything together. Yes, it's important to do things together but we are individuals and we all need space to do our own thing every once in a while. Even Siamese twins need 'me time'!

Secure relationships are not about sacrifices but about being able to communicate to your partner the importance of people and relationships in your life. It's about creating a union where individuals have the space to be themselves and make relationship choices based on what they want and not only the ones that are dictated/approved by their spouse.

What Was Behind Mysterious Collapse of the Mayan Empire?

The city states of the ancient Mayan empire flourished in southern Mexico and northern Central America for about six centuries. Then, around A.D. 900 Mayan civilization disintegrated.
Two new studies examine the reasons for the collapse of the Mayan culture, finding the Mayans themselves contributed to the downfall of the empire.

Scientists have found that drought played a key role, but the Mayans appear to have exacerbated the problem by cutting down the jungle canopy to make way for cities and crops, according to researchers who used climate-model simulations to see how much deforestation aggravated the drought.

"We're not saying deforestation explains the entire drought, but it does explain a substantial portion of the overall drying that is thought to have occurred," said the study's lead author Benjamin Cook, a climate modeler at Columbia University's Lamont-Doherty Earth Observatory and the NASA Goddard Institute for Space Studies, in a statement. [Dry and Dying: Images of Drought]

Using climate-model simulations, he and his colleagues examined how much the switch from forest to crops, such as corn, would alter climate. Their results, detailed online in the journal Geophysical Research Letters, suggested that when deforestation was at its maximum, it could account for up to 60 percent of the drying. (The switch from trees to corn reduces the amount of water transferred from the soil to the atmosphere, which reduces rainfall.)

Other recent research takes a more holistic view.
"The ninth-century collapse and abandonment of the Central Maya Lowlands in the Yucatán peninsular region were the result of complex human–environment interactions," writes this team in a study published Monday (Aug 20) in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
The team, led by B.L. Turner, a social scientist at Arizona State University, concurs that by clearing the forest, the Mayans may have aggravated a natural drought, which spiked about the time the empire came to an end and population declined dramatically.

But this is just one contributing factor to their demise, Turner and colleagues write, pointing out that the reconfiguration of the landscape may also have led to soil degradation. Other archaeological evidence points to a landscape under stress, for instance, the wood of the sapodilla tree, favored as construction beams, was no longer used at the Tikal and Calakmul sites beginning in A.D. 741. Larger mammals, such as white-tailed deer, appear to have declined at the end of empire.

Social and economic dynamics also contributed. Trade routes shifted from land transit across the Yucatán Peninsula to sea-born ships. This change may have weakened the city states, which were contending with environmental changes. Faced with mounting challenges, the ruling elites, a very small portion of the population, were no longer capable of delivering what was expected of them, and conflict increased.

"The old political and economic structure dominated by semidivine rulers decayed," the team writes. "Peasants, artisan – craftsmen, and others apparently abandoned their homes and cities to find better economic opportunities elsewhere in the Maya area."

心疼12星座的責任

白羊座

其實熱情的白羊戀人，遠遠沒有你想像那般難接近。直來直往，並不妨礙他們體貼溫柔；脾氣火爆，也並沒有減少他們潛在的浪漫因子。如果你真心疼愛白羊，只要陪他們去想去的地方，一起牽手漫步大街小巷，少點扭捏，多點灑脫，少點猜疑，多點信任。白羊不希望愛著自己的那個人，對自己有太多秘密，疼白羊的責任，從跟隨他們的步調開始。


金牛座

金牛屬於凡事喜歡慢慢來的星座，他們從不急於一時，一見鍾情再美好，也沒有日久生情來的安全可靠。疼金牛的責任，不用太有壓力，大方面他們早就考慮好了，不會讓你操心太多，你所要做的就是相信，沒錯，全心全意的相信他們。你的信任，就是金牛為愛奮鬥最大的動力，也是你表現疼愛責任的最好方式，最簡單，也最能體現心心相印的美好。


雙子座

如果你真的喜歡雙子，就不會苦惱於他們想法的瞬息萬變；如果你真的喜歡雙子，也不會因為他們不打招呼的來去而生氣。雙子想要的愛情，是你懂我的皺眉的紋路，我懂你微笑的弧度。如果不懂，又何來的愛情，又何必牽手？疼雙子的責任，重在理解，即使所有人都在質疑雙子的忽東忽西，你也要握緊他們的手，說我懂，因為理解萬歲。


巨蟹座

因為巨蟹戀人通常不喜歡說太多，總免不了讓人有種琢磨不透的感覺。怕自己給的，不是他們想要的，擔心自己努力的方向錯了。實際上，他們最在意的就是溫暖的點滴感動。不用大張旗鼓的示愛，不用送昂貴的禮物表明真心。疼巨蟹，就從細微處出發吧。天涼的時候提醒加衣，過節的時候給個小驚喜，疼愛的責任就一點一滴的表露出來了。


獅子座

獅子從來就不在乎霸氣外洩，會被誰故意打壓。而愛情中的另一方，就一定不要吝嗇給他們面子，這毫無疑問就是對獅子疼愛的責任所在。不是要你俯首稱臣，只是他們的自尊心很強，至少在外面，不管做什麼，都要給別人一種，獅子被深深愛著，好好呵護著的樣子。其實，只要你足夠愛獅子，就不會有任何壓力，相反，獅子回報的愛也是很誘人的。


處女座

如果你因為處女是完美主義者，就認為他們很嚴格，很苛刻，那就錯了。至少在愛情上，處女還是相當明事理的。只是天生的講究完美，要求不管做什麼都要有始有終，如果不能確定，就不要開始，不能保證做到，就不要誓言旦旦。他們討厭希望與失望之間大大的差距感，所以，疼處女座戀人，就要說到做到，即使是甜言蜜語，也不能與現實相差太遠。


天秤座

個性極其不穩定的天秤，對什麼都總是不夠確定。他們希望和自己朝夕相處過一輩子的人，多給他們一些信心，一些百分之百的把握，而不是「到時候再說」，「無所謂」，「我也不知道」的態度。疼天秤的責任就是在他們無法做出決定的時候，助他們一臂之力；在他們需要安慰的時候，用心陪著，做最堅實的後盾，帶領著走向未來。


天蠍座

天蠍心思又細，又不願意透露太多，不是他們刻意要別人去猜自己的心，而是喜歡那種心有靈犀一點就通的感覺。疼天蠍的責任，並不是要你費盡心思去猜他們的心中所想，因為只要天蠍願意，你會發現他們其實根本沒秘密，而責任重點就在真實二字上。真心是要拿真心來換的，如果愛情充滿了謊言，即使確實有愛，又能一起走到最後嗎？。


射手座

快樂是射手一直追尋的目標，所以如果兩個人的快樂比不過一個人的瀟灑，他們就會開始懷疑這段愛情的意義所在。當然，射手不會為了快樂而提出多麼過分的要求，只要你放輕鬆，該好好玩的時候，就不要談工作的鬱悶，該好好品嚐美食的時候，就不要煞風景的說沒胃口。疼射手的責任其實是那麼順其自然，一起快樂就好。


摩羯座

現實也有現實的美，現實也有現實的浪漫法則。摩羯戀人不是沒有童話的夢想，而是他們很早以前就知道生活沒有那麼多花裡胡哨的迷人。與其樂在一時的海誓山盟，不如來的實際點，畢竟鮮花再漂亮，也有枯萎的一天。一步一個腳印，努力打好未來生活的基礎，就足以表現出疼摩羯的責任了。從現在開始，一起創造美好的未來，難道不浪漫嗎？


水瓶座

想法很新穎，不喜歡跟隨別人的步伐，走自己路的水瓶，很享受愛情的浪漫意境。有時候若即若離，有時候又沒事找事。喜歡是一瞬間發生的事，而愛情，他們傳統的認為是一輩子的事。疼水瓶的責任，其實重點就在瞭解他們的小情調。不要覺得水瓶莫名其妙的問題是無理取鬧，不過是想激發一點靈感。一定不要以愛的名義束縛住，限制他們的自由，也就限制了他們愛你的程度。


雙魚座

對於雙魚來說，疼他們的責任，關鍵字就是夢、溫柔與體貼。你如果可以和他們一起在夢想的世界裡環遊，當然最好，如果不能，也至少不能否認，甚至打擊。安全感本來就不夠高的雙魚，最最經不起言語上的傷害。所以鬧矛盾的時候，一定不能把話說的太絕，因為他們會當真，就算最後還在一起，也會成為一段留在心中，揮子不去的陰影的。

12星座的守護星

【牡羊座】
守護星：火星
季節特質：象徵著新的開始，精神昂揚，富有創造力與旺盛的鬥志。
性急、精力、充滿活力、主動、具進取心。永遠不服輸，講求效率。
高度的容忍性。有不畏艱辛的意志力以及鬥爭心。心中一旦有了理想，必能排除萬難，勇往直前。自我中心太強，有點自大；急躁衝動而缺乏耐性，行動欠缺考慮，容易惱羞成怒。勇敢積極、自信坦率。自我中心、散漫被動。喜采主動、嫉妒心強。不喜單調刻板工作、喜接受挑戰。要注意頭、臉、大腦、中樞神經的健康。


【金牛座】
守護星：金星
季節特質：能夠提供各種商業經濟活動，最好的發展空間與成功機會。
錢財、分析、物質主義、有決心、切合實際。敏銳的感官，實用主義。
個性溫和又堅實，性情沉著而踏實。對事物雖然猶豫不定，但是一旦決定下來，就能以堅忍不撥的精神，執著向前。想法頑固，不知變通太過謹慎；缺乏協調性和幽默感，行動有些遲緩。忠誠可靠、精打細算。貪婪自私、唯利是圖。謹慎有耐性、依賴性強。按部就班、擅長處理繁瑣事務。要注意耳、聲帶、頸及喉、小腦的健康。


【雙子座】
守護星：水星
季節特質：象徵著心情的不穩定和想法意見的變動。
思考、敏捷、理智、多才多藝、不遵循禮教及社會風俗。能隨機應變，反應靈敏。
個性敏銳又快捷。有強烈的好奇心和求知欲，對於新觀念和新流行的感觸十分敏銳。聰明機智，有辯才，是一個謀略家和演說家。善變不專心，感情上常是花花公子；做事常不能貫徹始終，有些輕浮，令人捉摸不定，有點神經質。聰明伶俐、浪漫多情。沒有耐性、玩世不恭。有雙重性格、一生充滿羅曼史。聰明反應快、宜從事
演藝事業。要注意手、肩、上呼吸系統、神經系統的健康。


【巨蟹座】
守護星：月亮
季節特質：象徵著萬物的茂盛與繁華的景象，有如開花結果一般，充滿母性的孕育精神。
保護、想像、重視家庭生活、敏感、固執倔強。情緒化，感情豐富。
感情豐富，對事物的感受性強。對外親和謙恭，頗有公眾意識，但是對內則有強烈的防衛**，不願私生活受到於擾。大體上是一個溫和內向的人，但是絕不向惡勢力低頭。太過情緒化，缺乏理性思考，過度自我保護，沈溺往事不太能面對現實，心腸太軟。多愁善感、自我保護心強。喜怒無常、不善辭令。非常情緒化、忠於所愛的人。有愛心、具責任感，宜從事服務行業。要注意胸、胃、皮膚的健康。
【獅子座】


守護星：太陽
季節特質：象徵著權利名聲以及熱情如火，滿懷精力地去追求自己的理想。
領袖、尊嚴、充滿活力、具有權威及力量。表現欲強，具領袖魅力。
為人正直，頗具威嚴。喜歡以自己的魅力和才能開創出一片天地，並熱衷於權力地位。處事時採用光明磊落全力以赴的做法，厭惡卑劣的小人行徑。愛面子，以自我為中心，容易自我膨脹，能伸不能屈，缺乏耐性，剛愎自用。表達能力強、具有非凡魅力。佔有欲強、虛榮好勝。好勝心強、喜談轟轟烈烈的戀愛。做事果斷、認真、易創一番事業。要注意心臟、背部、脊椎的健康。


【處女座】
守護星：水星
季節特質：象徵著默默地付出，容易感傷，心思敏銳。
美感、愛情、辨識、分析、應用能力、熱心服務。講求精細，完美主義者。
為人勤勉，一絲不苟，喜歡接觸社會，行事採取合理主義，是一個對社會頗有貢獻的人。在個性上思慮較多，富於批判精神，容易成為鋒利的評論家。有濃厚的道德觀念。太過追求完美而有些‘龜毛’，對別人要求很高，太注重細節。充滿智慧、完美主義者。反叛衝動、主觀固執。對戀愛的對象要求很高、為人認真專情。頭腦靈活、是專業人才。要注意腹、腸髒、胰臟、新陳代謝系統的健康。


【天秤座】
守護星：金星
季節特質：象徵著對事物重新檢討與評估，像是珍惜得來不易的秋天收穫。
精確、社交、和諧、合作、衡量。不偏不倚的均衡感。
個性穩健而理智。有優秀的平衡感和公正的判斷力，善於協調，在相反的意見中往往能擔負起調停的責任。太重視外表，不喜歡暴露自己的缺點；做事模棱兩可，優柔寡斷，怕得罪人而意志不堅；好逸惡勞、喜歡享受。氣質優雅、正直平和。思想幼稚、行事魯莽。不甘寂寞、頗受異性歡迎。對美學有良好觸角、宜從事藝術工作。要注意腎的健康。


【天蠍座】
守護星：火星、冥王星
季節特質：象徵著佔有和隱藏，不容易被侵犯，不讓別人有機會奪走自己的東西。
神秘、性欲、再生能力、足智多謀。喜惡分明，以身作則。
個性強烈衝動。有足夠的精力和膽識，不懼艱難。觀察力敏銳，經常能夠洞悉事情的真相，對事物也有獨到的見解。佔有欲強，醋勁十足，疑心病重，報復心太強；聰明的天蠍座個性倔強，態度冷漠，令人覺得不好相處。觀察力強、敢愛敢恨。冷漠自負。要完全佔有對方、為愛人赴湯蹈火。重紀律和負責、宜擔任軍警工作。要注意鼻、血液的健康。


【射手座】
守護星：木星
季節特質：象徵著心靈的安息與娛悅的生活。
信仰、擴展、有抱負、愛好自由、喜歡冒險犯難。喜好自由，浪跡天涯。
個性率直而開朗，對正義和真理抱持著極高的期許，希望自己能有多於常人的知識和經驗。大膽而富冒險精神，熱愛自由，無論在何種環境下都希望保持精神與行動的獨立。心直口快，容易傷到別人；做事衝動，不切實際，常常虎頭蛇尾；不喜歡受束縛的射手座較沒有家庭觀念。多才多藝、喜無拘無束。自大狂妄、行為飄忽。性情不羈、喜不斷轉換新伴侶。積極上進、宜向語言或教學方面發展。要注意臀部、肝臟、靜脈、肌肉的健康。


【摩羯座】
守護星：土星
季節特質：代表歷練和成熟，充滿毅力與耐力，面對寒冷氣候的挑戰，度過惡劣的時節。
延遲、限制、有野心、保守、有知覺能力及**力。刻苦耐勞，奮鬥不懈。
充滿智慧，思緒周密。有高度的耐力，在嚴苛的現實環境下仍然能夠耐心等待。個性嚴謹踏實，容易孤獨。太過現實，固執，不能隨機應變，不夠樂觀，缺乏浪漫情趣，壓抑自己的情感，缺少對人群的關懷與熱情。獨立自主、冷靜機警。虛偽善變、好逸惡勞。外冷內熱、時會猶豫不決。刻苦耐勞、有領導才能。要注意下肢、小腿、循環系統的健康。


【水瓶座】
守護星：土星、天王星
季節特質：象徵著對未來的計畫，以及精神生活的充實。
智慧、反對、慈善博愛、崇尚人道主義、獨立、具有獨創力。有科學性的堅持理念。
個性獨立而執著。經常有一些激進、革新式的見地，屬於新時代的人物，有豐富**意識，能夠打破社會階級和人種的差異，培育真正的友情。太過理想化而缺乏熱情，情趣不足；太相信自己的判斷，思想多變，沒有恒心，喜歡多管閒事。活潑開朗、聰明、有創意。粗心大意、不守承諾。對愛情充滿憧憬、重視心靈上的交流。喜交際應酬、做事有效率。要注意下肢、小腿、循環系統的健康。


【雙魚座】
守護星：木星、海王星
季節特質：象徵著希望的寄託和對失望的看破。
幻想、收穫、熱情且深情、包容力強、具自我犧牲精神。自得其樂，豐富的想像力。
才華洋溢，喜歡幻想。依賴心強，能適應不同的環境和立場。富於同情心，有犧牲自我的精神。太容易相信別人，判斷力不夠，總是憑感覺行事，對任何事情感受力都太過敏神經質，不夠理智太理想化。人際關係良好、溫柔體貼。杞人憂天、善妒猜疑。會為所愛的人作出犧牲、但容易受傷害。細心認真、宜從事文藝創作。要注意腳、腳趾的健康。

十二星座寂寞時刻

摩羯座
摩羯的喜怒哀樂不喜歡表露在外，不只是謹慎的習慣，更是知曉靠自己比靠他人來的踏實這個道理。他們的寂寞，不是一聲歎息，也不是字里行間的無奈，而是宣洩不完的錯誤選擇。正如一步錯，步步錯，明知已經無法回頭，卻又在另一條道路上掙扎不前。于是，寂寞化作了絲絲悲傷，淡淡哀愁，轉了一個彎，還是流向了自己的心中，就算不舍，也只能忘卻自己丟失的快樂，慢慢消化無盡的愧疚，然后云開見日。

水瓶座
水瓶的寂寞是一種被忘卻的痛。從來都把友情視為珍寶，像情人間與朋友許諾要今生今世不離不棄。只是生活需要獨自奮斗，時間與空間也隔開了彼此不小的距離。其實不是被遠離，也許是自動遠離。當看到朋友一個個都散去，才發現原來什麼也留不住，為他們尋找到各自的幸福，開心的同時，也不免感到失落，而這種失落的深層含義，就是寂寞。

雙魚座
寂寞的雙魚，充滿了揮散不去的詩情畫意。花自飄零水自流，一種相思，兩處閒愁。心愛的人不在身邊，最多就是想念，想念一個人並不會寂寞，因為彼此相愛，還可以回憶點點滴滴在一起的溫暖。而寂寞就是落花有意流水無情的悲哀。付出了真心，換來的卻是一個夢碎的傷痛，寄予了真情，得到的卻是遙遙無期的許諾，那麼，寂寞如夢，虛無縹緲，卻痛到了心底的最深處。

白羊座
愛一個人可以什麼也不顧，恨一個人也不會聽任何勸說之詞，白羊的沖動不是一時興起，更是一種習慣。總是將自己置身于最熱鬧的地方，最歡快的場所，可是人群散去，只留下一個人靜靜的陪著自己的影子時，白羊卻寂寞的瘋狂。是的，他們的寂寞就是孤獨，而孤獨也是寂寞的唯一姿態。一個人背包去旅行的白羊，不是因為真的瀟灑，而是因為寂寞無人知，唯有大自然的回聲。

金牛座
也許在很多人看來，金牛本身就是一種寂寞，他們不喜歡大聲喧嘩，也討厭嘰嘰喳喳的參與討論，但是，這並不是他們的寂寞，只不過一直在心底沉思，在沒有得出結論之前，不會妄自揣測。金牛真正的寂寞，是在獲得成功以后的空虛，就像是戰場上沒有對手，不知道自己接下來要做什麼。不會為過去的成就沾沾自喜，只會因沒有目標而寂寞難耐。

雙子座
雙子的寂寞，來去匆匆，沒有固定的模式，也沒有確切的軌跡可尋。他們開心大笑的時候，不一定就是真的快樂，因為你忽略了他們眼中轉瞬即逝的哀愁；他們一個人靜靜看著樹葉飄落的時候，也不一定就有多憂愁，因為你錯過了他們嘴角不經意流露出的微笑。雙子的寂寞如一股清流，滋潤的不是自己，當心愛的人沒有留下任何理由走開，孤獨的墨跡暈開，渲染了真整個世界

巨蟹座
愛一個人好難，恨一個人也好累，如果愛無法繼續，恨又沒辦法開始，在愛恨之間徘徊的巨蟹，是最寂寞的。想要一個人靜靜的思考，又想找一個了解它們內心世界的人傾訴心事，矛盾不停的在心中糾纏，只因想要傾訴的人不願傾聽，愛散了，又如何保持平靜。寂寞的眼淚無人能懂，只好在一個人的夜晚偷偷哭泣，希望淚水帶走寂寞的痛。

獅子座
獅子的寂寞，不是想象中的孤單背影，也不是人群散去后的流連忘返，而是被欺騙之后，發現事實的瞬間。原來一切都是假象，不管是稱兄道弟，還是信誓旦旦的天長地久，都是可笑的敷衍。獅子沒有承擔殘酷事實的勇氣，唯有鑽進熱鬧氣氛中，強顏歡笑，逼自己開心，逼自己堅強，用更霸道的氣度趕走心中的寂寞。

處女座
處女的寂寞，就像是小孩子要不到糖果的委屈，看似沒什麼大不了，實際上會很想大哭一場，繁華盡處的蕭條也不過如此。當滿懷欣喜的等待目標實現，等來的卻是努力白費，這其實還不要緊，處女比較容易想開，就是怕沒有人願意和和他們一起重新來過。孤獨的旅程，怎一個寂寞了得，因為不管有多少不滿，也無處抱怨，不管有多少阻擋，也必須咬牙堅持。一個人努力，甚至找不到期待的出口。

天秤座
寂寞于天秤，很簡單，也很直接，一目了然，不會有太多的掩飾。不掩飾，是因為想要得到有心人些許的安慰，不掩飾也是因為不懂如何隱藏心情。快樂的事那麼多，卻偏偏記住了最傷心的那些片段，每當憶起那些過往的愛恨，錯過的緣分，天秤就會瞬間跌入寂寞的深淵。當周圍的熱鬧介入，朋友的歡聲笑語又能瞬間打破他們的孤獨心境，進入繽紛世界。天秤的寂寞，源于情，也止于情。

天蠍座
沒有遇到深愛的那個人，沒有經歷轟轟烈烈的感情故事，冷靜的天蠍從未感受過寂寞，因為他們的心本來就是寂寞的。如果不曾嘗過激情的滋味，不曾體會過愛情的甜蜜，天蠍永遠不會知道熱鬧背后的苦楚到底是什麼。既然冥冥之中讓我們相遇、相知、相愛，為什麼又不能一起抵達幸福的彼岸？當背叛造次，當愛情遠離，寂寞的時刻也就此拉開了無邊的帷幕。

射手座
射手是一個很懂得隱藏寂寞的星座。他們瀟灑的態度，自由的作風，無一不張揚著自我的魅力。但是，一付對什麼都無所謂外表下的寂寞，又有誰知？一個人的快樂怎麼可能是真的快樂，追求不到心中所愛的故作瀟灑，也只是勉強的微笑，揮揮手，拒絕別人的安慰，說一個人的開心也不錯。輕松回頭掩飾掉流出的眼淚，寂寞無人知，寂寞無人曉。

十二星座的二十四種性格

白羊座
正面的白羊座性格： 熱情，凡事興致沖沖，活潑外向，精力充沛，不拘小節。
負面的白羊座性格： 缺乏耐性，急躁不安，在感情上要求得太高，煩人、不體貼，不懂
得照顧自己。


金牛座
正面的金牛座性格： 實際、耐力好，愛好美與藝術，充滿感性，善解人意。
負面的金牛座性格： 太固執、不願接受改變，太重現實了，考慮太多，退縮不前。


雙子座
正面的雙子座性格： 充滿想像力與創造力，聰明靈活，思路敏捷，妙語如珠，生動有趣
，外向活潑，機智，反應快。
負面的雙子座性格： 多動兒，不安於室，沒什麼注意力，大嘴巴，三姑六婆，喜歡打情
罵俏，容易產生雙重性格


巨蟹座
正面的巨蟹座性格： 喜歡照顧人、保護人，直覺力強，愛家、顧家，愛心多多
負面的巨蟹座性格： 多愁善感，佔有慾強，比較孤獨，喜歡獨居，缺乏安全感


獅子座
正面的獅子座性格： 充滿愛心、慷慨大方，溫暖、機靈，高貴、自負，光芒四射，引人
注目，頗有藝術天才，充滿迷人的氣質與魅力。
負面的獅子座性格： 你也太愛show了吧！太愛花錢羅！愛當老大，有一點點勢利，永遠
想當第一名，太重權勢、地位。


處女座
正面的處女座性格： 工作賣力，盡職敬業，充滿理想，健康意識強，眼光好，靈活，機
警。
負面的處女座性格： 有工作狂化傾向，無可救藥完美主義者，太迷信養生法，善批評，
對自己沒啥信心。


天秤座
正面的天秤座性格： 個性迷人充滿魅力，精明，善交際，崇尚和平，和諧，愛好美與藝
術。
負面的天秤座性格： 透過魅力操縱別人，優柔寡斷，受不了孤獨，頗為懶惰。


天蠍座
正面的天蠍座性格： 磁性魅力，無人能抵，第六感直覺力強，無比性感，從不忘記也從
不放棄。
負面的天蠍座性格： 支配性強，愛做神秘狀，對性太執著，也從不原諒。


射手座
正面的射手座性格： 樂觀、熱情，求知慾強，好冒險，幽默，會自我解嘲。
負面的射手座性格： 任性，放縱，以為無所不知，賭性堅強，感覺遲鈍，太大而化之。


摩羯座
正面的摩羯座性格： 能幹務實，認真理性，追求安定，注重保障，野心勃勃。
負面的摩羯座性格： 重利現實，嚴肅遲鈍，工作狂一個，不夠浪漫。


水瓶座
正面的水瓶座性格： 才氣洋溢、創意無限，魅力難抵，理想色彩濃。
負面的水瓶座性格： 冷漠無情、無動於衷，交遊雖多、知心卻少，激進派。


雙魚座
正面的雙魚座性格： 敏感、想像力強，創造力強，有藝術天份，直覺強、預感靈敏，同
情心太多，樂於助人。
負面的雙魚座性格： 有點神經質，夢想家，會逃避現實愛情，不安全感極大，好騙，易
迷惘困惑。

各星座男孩喜歡的女孩個性與特質

白羊座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~明朗快活而有自主性的女孩
白羊座的男孩是男人中的男人。因為十分熱情，所以只要喜歡的話，就會直接表示出來。喜歡或討厭表現的很明顯。最不欣賞那些態度曖昧、猶豫不決的人。喜歡那種明朗快活、充滿精神、乾脆爽快，並有自主性的聰明女孩。喜歡嬌小玲瓏的女孩。也就是所謂的「短小精悍型」。既聰明又喜歡運動和冒險的女孩，也是他心儀的對象。一旦遇到喜歡的女孩，就會直接接展開攻勢，至於對方對自己的看法則一點也不在乎。就會展開熱情的追求。喜歡穿輕便的服裝和留短髮。最討厭濃妝豔抹。最喜歡小麥色的淡妝和古銅色的肌膚。


獅子座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~能將喜怒哀樂清楚表現出來的女性
如太陽般的明亮，喜歡以自我為中心，而能夠服從自己，並且人見人誇的漂亮女孩。但是不論多麼漂亮的女孩，如果太過畏縮膽怯的話，則無法愛到他的青睞，他喜歡如向日葵一般明豔，且帶有一點傲氣及個性的現代美女。又，書讀不好沒有關係，只要頭腦靈活聰明就可以了。不夠機靈的女孩不論長得再漂亮，依然無法受到他的重視。如果想要得到他的青睞的話，就面對著鏡子，擠眉弄眼找出各種豐富的表情。他欣賞能夠將喜怒哀樂各種表情，清楚表現出來的女孩。帶點誇張的戲劇效果，更能引起他的注意。又，追求流行，喜歡穿鮮豔時髦的服裝。比較性感的女孩，較能吸引他。


射手座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~喜歡笑和運動的女孩
十分熱情而心術正直的他，個性也非常明朗爽快。如果喜歡上一個女孩一定不會將自己的感情隱藏起來。就如他的象徵符號－－箭一般，會直接射向對方的心扉。而比較性急的他，對於被動的女孩，則缺乏興趣。雖然愛慕著他，但也能和其他異性相處愉快的女孩子，只要能挑起他的佔有慾，就會受到他的青睞。除此之外，還欣賞個性爽快且自我主張強的女孩，欣賞身材曲條且有健康美，並有一張外國面孔的美女。比起溫柔的女孩，他比較喜歡愛好運動、個性爽朗、笑容滿面的女孩但卻討厭俗不可耐的女孩。不喜歡打扮的太複雜，因此樸素而有靈秀之美的女孩最能吸引他。


金牛座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~誠實且聲音甜美的女孩
誠實正經的人。雖然不是熱情澎湃會積極主動追求女孩子的人，但用情至深且專一，因此追求的對象，也希望是位可愛成實的女孩。因為喜歡突顯自己所以最不欣賞那些喜歡賣弄知識，窮究事理的女孩。又，對於笑容可掬，聲音甜美的女孩也十分欣賞。除此之外對於美的感覺非常敏銳，但對華麗的感覺，則深感厭煩。特別重視配色。最不喜歡庸俗華麗的頻色。比起短髮，寧可留像女孩子一般鬆而內捲的長髮。喜歡溫柔善良的女孩子。太過死皮或骨感的女孩子，則引不起他的興趣。


處女座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~有智慧較保守的女孩
雖然對女孩親切而熱心服務，但因為原屬知性的星座，所以是位略帶神經質而喜愛清潔的男子
基本上，喜歡追求寧靜的氣氛。因此對於那些喋喋不休，或缺乏知性美的女孩，根本不屑不顧。而對於像散放著芳香的紅色玫瑰那般美麗的女孩，也不見得會動心。
有智慧、身材纖細、臉小而圓，散發出如香皂般的香味，敏感而樸素的女孩，最能打動他的心弦。他最討厭笨拙的女孩。也討厭沒有規矩的人。因為是個十分注重細節的男孩，所以懂得愛情羽毛。像指甲有沒有修剪、鞋子有沒有體、校徽有沒有弄皺這些細微之處，都是他注意的焦點。


摩羯座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~被溫柔可愛的女孩所吸引
什麼事情都慢半拍，戀愛之芽也萌發的比別人慢。雖然火分熱情，但因為缺乏積極主動追求女孩子的勇氣，因此常常無法享受到戀愛的滋味。不會沈溺於戀愛，或被情所困的他，並不欣賞那種人見人誇，像玫瑰一般明豔的女孩，反而喜歡那種孤芳自賞，如野菊般可愛的女孩。對於那種粗枝大葉，張口哈哈大笑的女孩，則產生心理上的厭惡。身材曲條、臉小、額寬、眼大給人溫柔感覺得女孩，是他欣賞的對象。除此之外，也不喜歡穿著華麗、打扮妖豔的女孩，也不欣賞穿金帶銀飾這種散發溫柔光芒飾品的人最對他的口味，因此具有溫柔、堅實特性的人，也是他喜歡的對象。


雙子座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~頭腦靈活的女孩
雙子座的男孩頭腦靈活，富有幽默感，且知識頗豐。能帶給女孩子歡樂氣息的，他是一個很受女孩子歡迎的人。又因為是個八面玲瓏的人，所以雖然是知性的星座，但卻不會沈溺在戀愛之中有點花心的他，一點也不欣賞嚴肅而缺乏情趣的女孩。對於開朗聰明，而能欣賞他的幽默女孩，最具好感。如果想得到他的青睞的話，就得好好動動頭腦。因為他不喜歡太過遲鈍的人。而體積太過龐大的女孩，也是他的拒絕往來戶。尤其是胖女人，更無法引起他的興趣。聰明可愛的容貌，配上流行的短髮最能吸引追求時髦的女孩。為了討好喜歡你的女孩，你可以多做這樣的打扮。


天秤座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~個性直爽而熱情的女孩
雖然是個男孩，但因為喜愛打扮，所以一直讓人覺得是個收拾得很乾淨的人。天秤座是最嫌惡醜陋的星座。也是１２星座中，英俊男子最多的一個星座。對於感情毫不盲目的他，懂得避開會使自己深陷其中的感情漩渦。所以感情用事的女孩，一向無法吸引他。又，因為對於感情比較被動，所以比較喜歡熱情而直爽的女孩。因為１２星座中，最會以貌取人的星座，因此不僅注重別人貌美，也在意別人的妝扮。


水瓶座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~有智慧、有個性的女孩
因為是知性的星座，所以水瓶座男孩的愛是明確而健康的。由於不討好女孩子，所以那種講究氣氛，追求浪漫的女孩子會覺得他是個不解風情的男人。而他不欣賞那種喜歡幻想織夢的女孩。對於缺乏自主性，人云亦云的人更覺反感。在妝扮方面，他從不考慮是否合適自己，只是對於那些一味追求流行的人不屑一顧。他喜歡那種穿著得體，臉上泛發出健康美的女孩，而性格開朗，頭腦靈活樂觀健談，且能讚同他看法的女孩，最能吸引他。又因為他很重友，所以關心朋友的女孩，和能將自己理念清楚說出來的女孩，及喜歡窮根究理的女孩，都是他欣賞的對象。



巨蟹座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~不愛出風頭而充滿溫馨的女孩
浪漫、能保護所愛的人，並且有真誠之愛的他，因為自己也是個愛撤嬌的孩子，所以很注重心靈的交流。他所追求的對象，必定和他母親有許多相似的地方。對於所愛的人，也一直認定她是未來結婚的對象。因此他不欣賞活躍的女孩，而喜歡溫柔純真的女孩。比起五官明顯的女孩，他還是比較喜歡圓臉而福相的好孩。而頭髮方面則喜歡長髮。最討厭華麗而庸俗的打扮。平凡樸素而充滿溫馨的美，最能吸引他。安詳文靜，對人溫和的女孩，深受他的喜愛。如果想要得到他的好感的話，千萬不可愛出鋒頭。反而應該大大的發揮女性應有的溫柔。



天蠍座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~心向因難挑戰的女孩
一旦愛上一個女孩，就專心一致，熱情不褪，在１２星座中，用情最深的他，同樣要求對方要有深摯而真誠的感情。能夠吸引他的異性，是溫和而對事物十分專注的女孩。對於喜歡男孩奉承、拍馬屁的女孩，即使自己喜歡的類型，也只有保持距離而不去接近。保守的他雖然看起來看斯文，但卻欣賞性感而有一身古銅肌膚的女孩。不強調追求流行，但喜歡奇特而有創意的服裝。不過卻不欣賞女孩子做這樣的打扮。喜歡有個性美的女孩化妝時強高嘴唇的特色，至於頭髮則以長髮較能吸引他，尤其烏黑柔亮的秀髮，能散發出讓人無法抗拒的魅力。


雙魚座男孩喜歡的女孩類型~心地善良感情豐富的女孩
雙魚座的他，心地善良，浪漫、感情豐富，還有一點愛撒嬌。他是一個不能沒有愛情滋潤的男孩，對愛最強調的是心靈的契合。心地喜良的女孩，最能吸引他。而純真、眼睛大的女孩，和那種楚楚動人，我見猶憐的女孩，也是十分欣賞的對象。除此之外，那種很會關懷照顧別人，帶有一種如母親般的溫柔氣質的女孩，也能深深的吸引住他。柋最討厭那種強辭奪理，咄咄逼人的女孩。雖然書讀不好但是心地善良的女孩，也是他喜歡的對象。髮型方面比較喜歡長髮，穿著方面比較喜歡陰性的打扮，而顏色則比較喜歡中間色。

12星座誰的愛不求回報

白羊座
　　白羊座的付出與回報分兩階段：追求對象時，白羊只管熱烈而直接的付出，只要能打動對方，讓他用命博都可以，而對別人為博他歡心的付出，卻提不起興趣；戀愛或結婚后，他就想索要回報——對方得時常無條件縱容、關注他，永遠把他擺在第一位。對于占有欲强的他，恐怕另一半得經常受累了！


金牛座
　　金牛的付出是謹慎小心的，尤其當暗戀一個人時，不會像其他一些星座為了追求對方而不顧一切，因為害羞，也因為怕得不到而白白浪費自己的感情和金錢。只有在婚姻當中，他才會為了維持感情的穩定持久而掏空心思。可一旦發現與伴侶的關系不再可靠、安全，他便抽身而退，因為再沉重的代價他承擔不起
　

雙子座
　　雙子座的付出恐怕是最輕松的，整天動動嘴皮，花言巧語地逗得對方心花怒放，便可以輕易讓人相信他的愛有多深，得到的回報當然是對他的死心塌地。可是，這回報他並一定會在乎和珍惜。當他愛上另一個人，或受到另一事物吸引后想抽身時，哪怕身邊人為他付出再大的代價，也很難讓他再回望一眼。


巨蟹座
　　踏進愛情的領域中，巨蟹座極其容易迷失自我，情人就是自己生命中的一切，其他的當然就不再重要。在愛情中，他最常做的就是臣服于情人，總怕自己做得不夠多不夠好，而從不去計較誰愛的多愛得少。甚至，他明明知道對方並不值得自己那樣付出，可愛了，便沒法脫身，即便得不到回應，也心甘情願。
　

獅子座
　　獅子座從來都沒熄滅過對轟轟烈烈愛情的幻想，當愛上一個時，他會把他所有的熱情都投入其中，願意與對方分享他的一切。可愛情要轟轟烈烈，他一人怎麼行？于是，他會希望心愛的人也能像他的愛那樣熱烈，那樣富有激情。他是那樣高傲，那樣自負，怎能容忍在愛情的精彩劇目中只有他在唱獨角戲？


處女座
　　處女座選到一個喜歡的人不容易，選到一個適合自己喜歡的人更不容易，他們對待感情特別慎重，在沒確定要把對方當成結婚對象之前，他很少會主動付出。可一旦認定了，便會把心底所有防線都撤掉，全身心鐘愛著對方，一切都圍著對方打轉。即便對方付出的沒他那麼多，他也可以不在意，只要別離開他就行。


天秤座
　　天秤座的他需要忠貞的愛情保護，需要傾訴衷情，需要對方的理解和包容，可他卻忘了在需要之前自己為此付出過多大努力？他確實希望生活能和和美美，會竭盡全力取悅于人。可同樣他也很懶散，只要覺得自己主動付出過一次，那麼對方就應該知道他的心意，不再需要多費周折。說到底，他愛的總是自己！


天蠍座
　　天蠍座在愛情中占絕對的主導地位，對方必須時刻以他為主軸轉動，為此，他總會抓住對方的弱點，並為此而付出行動，直到對方心甘情願為他付出一切。而當他感應到回應時，又會用自己全部的愛和魅力緊緊包圍著對方，甚至會讓人感到窒息。
　

射手座
　　對射手座而言，付出與回報的關系就像小孩扮家家酒，要有來有往。對方付出一分，他便回報一分；他付出一分，對方也得回報他一分，不然他會覺得沒勁，下次就不主動付出了，除非先還了上次欠的。他的獨立意識很强，在他看來沒有誰就一定得依靠誰，或是給誰依靠，付出和回報並存才是對愛情的尊重。


魔羯座
　　或許他很嚴肅，或許他常為了事業而忽略對方的感受，好像這個家、這份感情一直都只是伴侶在付出。可魔羯座的他卻從未停止過對家、對另一半的付出，不會甜言蜜語，那是因為他不知如何表達心底最深情的愛；為事業而狂，那是為了讓這個家有更好的經濟基礎。他的付出總在無聲中進行，他不要回報，只要對方能理解就好。


水瓶座
　　如果要說付出，水瓶座在友情上的付出遠比愛情上的多，朋友一呼就到，可當另一半遇到什麼事找他，他總會借口“我現在在忙，等等吧”。也因為朋友和自由在他心目中很重要，他並不希望另一半付出太多，不想因為欠太多而心生愧意，更不想被愛束縛。付出太多是一種累，他沒辦法回報，所以有時寧肯不要，讓彼此保持在他認為適當的安全距離！
　

雙魚座
　　雙魚座在付出與回報的問題上，總能找到安慰自己的平衡點。他天真的認為只要自己付出的越多，則不必提要求，也能得到回報。若是付出得不到回應，他會傻傻的告訴自己：只要自己更努力，肯聽對方的話，總會被他打動的。因此，只要對方稍稍為他付出一點，他便會欣喜若狂，付出再多出覺得值。

12星座不被人知道的痛

白羊座白羊座一向被人们看作：火爆，冲动甚至没有大脑的情绪化阿一星座。就是这个在外表看来开朗无比的星座，在难过的时候却出奇的安静，自己疗伤，自己恢复，自己在自己的世界里试图遗忘悲伤，受伤的白羊总是会做出一些看似正常实则不同于以往的事情。不要看羊平时乐呵呵的其实羊有时候满悲观的。


金牛座被冠以“现实，算计，爱财，保守”的高帽，其实金牛座并不象他们的名字那样金牛，他们浪漫而且天真，在遇到爱的时候吞吞吐吐很容易害羞，但是打死不承认，由于他们严谨的作风，很容易让你感觉他们的状态奇佳济南双永，其实不是，牛牛们很脆弱很有责任感，很容易受到伤害后自我欺骗，需要了解牛牛的人给予关爱。


双子座双子座常常被划分到不安，疑心重，务实，小聪明，不爱与他人交谈自己的心事的行列，双子多半会对自己的秘密止步，其实双子看似铁打的波澜不惊，双子座的看似成熟，却实则没有成熟的经历，不会猛烈的追求，却愿意真心的等待，就算是发现时光已经流逝，双子也只是保持沉默和伪装的孤傲，双子深深的害怕受到伤害，所以双子以自己的方式生活在心的角落一言不发，有人说过与双子谈一场恋爱会令你终身难忘。


巨蟹座很迷样的星座，有的巨蟹被人们看作胆小，喜欢逃避，性格顽固，其实巨蟹们看似有坚硬的外壳，内心却极度脆弱，自我保护意识的强烈正好验证了这些，善良的本性，不会拒绝，不想对他人说不济南双永，巨蟹对爱情和面包的选择很明确，选择爱，别人对他好，他就认为自己也应该对对方好，巨蟹会默默成全，会真心奉献，蟹子你的忧愁人们会了解,另外不要老是把巨蟹当作万能的倾诉者，蟹子的心事重重的时候也需要有人关心和理解。


狮子座毫无疑问狮子座很有特质那就是被人们认为的自大，粗心，爱面子，很骄傲，有的人认为狮子令人不知道该如何相处，那我只能告诉你，你不了解狮子，狮子很有同情心，遇到伤痛，狮子很悲观，胡思乱想，却要济南双永故作镇定，而且狮子极度容易把责任推在自己的身上，狮子并不愿意伤害别人，如果伤害了别人，狮子会内疚自责到世界末日来了都无法清醒。


处女座神经大条，工作狂，生活混而不乱，挑剔，有点事妈，机械人大概是人们对处女座的表面定义，其实追求完美或者是感情洁癖的性格都是处女周围或者精神的压抑附加给他们的生活，处女座有一颗敏感而又无奈地心，遇到痛苦的事情，他们会把自己逼进死角或者借酒消愁，这时处女座的自我保护欲已经变成零，看惯了强势的他们，但拿掉面具的处女座柔弱的像孩子，需要别人来保护，丝毫没有安全感。


天秤座天秤座谈到这个星座，人们就会想到美男美女，大众情人，没错天秤座外貌高雅，性格平和，和天秤相处你可能会感觉到天秤的性格永远不会极端，但是看似备受肯定的天秤其实很自卑，做事犹豫不定，如果你了解天秤你就知道什么是真正的最悲观，难过时，对未来的事情天秤都不敢去想，痛苦愈痛苦，生活中灰蒙蒙的，不知道该怎么走下去。


天蝎座阴险，残酷，城府极深，善妒，冷血等几颗重磅炸弹都被人们很不公平的丢给了蝎子，就是这种认识蝎子也淡然的接受了，蝎子的悲情是人们所很少感受到的，因为蝎子的倔强和坚强，真实的蝎子可以说是这不是
骗子诈骗欺骗人的灵魂，是非忽悠骗术骗局完美的世界悲情者的典范，脆弱到骨子里的本性，强烈的性格致使蝎子受到伤害后更加难受，很难愈合，越痛蝎子就越用毒尾伤害自己伤害所爱的人，希望蝎子身边的人珍视天蝎，蝎子是无心伤人的，只是用这种方式受伤。


射手座人马座，半人半兽可以说是很有个性的火性星座，粗枝大叶，喜新厌旧，洒脱，很有欲望追求，有时略显盲目和小家子气，其实半人半兽的外在被称为原始的进化，但是射手的性格却完全小孩子，很容易凭第一印象下定论，所以分分合合或者没有开始的结果也是常有的，射手座很难令人联想到悲观？但请不要只注意射手此刻的情绪，下一刻痛苦会令射手走进阴霾。表面乐观会更加反射出射手的寂寞，怅然。


摩羯座也许会不太忍心说这个星座，因为它象征坚忍，耐心和悲情指数都很靠前，为了友情和爱情能够达到一个无法想象的极限，不抛弃，不分开，哪怕不是对方的爱，但是也不纠缠，厚道直白的摩羯纵使有太多的软弱，也抵不住它天生悲观的使者角色，如果你爱上摩羯，你得到的会是平凡的温暖和永远的爱，如果你不爱摩羯，摩羯会在静默中给予你想要的自由和未来。


水瓶座追求自己的生活，带有最重的个人主义色彩，有风一般的性格，个性独特，偶尔会流露出冷漠。如果你身边有博爱的水瓶，你会发现什么是真正的难以捉摸，但是对秘密重视，对事情细腻的瓶子，很难一见钟情，远是瓶子对情感的定义，看似冷漠不介入他人事情的水瓶，其实常常处于错乱，困扰的状态，对过去的伤痛很难忘记，瓶子易碎易毁，虽然崇尚自由，但依旧无法放弃爱.


双鱼也许每个星座都有矛盾的感觉，却没有一个星座浑然天成的像双鱼这样矛盾到凄美，有时怯懦有时隐忍，双鱼从来不掩饰自己的柔弱和愁闷，双鱼在遇到任何的事情的时候多半都会表现出和鱼儿气质完全不一样的坚强，双鱼会心甘情愿的为爱牺牲，情绪化的鱼儿也许会令周围的人很迷茫，但是请你读懂鱼的伤。

My New Rollerblades

One day I walked into a sporting goods store. In the store I noticed these brand new rollerblades. I use to have a pair of rollerblades but they got all beat up and broken. I use to have fun on them, but eventually they broke and I stopped skating. These new skates were the coolest things I had ever seen! They were pretty pricey but I decided to buy them.

On the way home I was so excited. I kept thinking about how fun it was going to be to skate around the neighborhood. It was going to make me so happy to show off my new skates. I could now skate at the park, at the beach or I could even join a roller hockey league! There were so many new things that I could now experience.

I finally got home. I ran inside and went to my room to open my new rollerblades. It was a beautiful day out. It was 72 degrees and sunny. What a perfect day.
I finally decided to open them. The box was big. It was a real hefty box.

I thought to myself,"Man, they must really need to protect these things".

I finally found the side of the box to open but it was taped. And when I say it was taped I mean it was TAPED! There must have been like 20 layers of tape on the box. I started to get a little frustrated. It took me almost a half hour just to get it off. I finally was able to open the box and THERE THEY WERE!

except they were wrapped in plastic. . .

Now I had to find the opening to the plastic. I kept looking but I was not able to find it. I tried ripping the plastic but it was too tough. I eventually had to get a razor blade and cut a hole neatly into the bag.

FINALLY I REACHED MY ROLLERBLADES!!!

I held them up in my hands. They were gorgeous! The sun shined through my bedroom window and glistened off the chrome buckles. I slowly ran my finger down the four wheels on the bottom of the blade. The wheels spun fast and smoothly for a long time. The wheels themselves were perfectly shaped. The hard plastic of the boot was so new I could see my reflection in it.

I realized I had purchased the greatest rollerblades ever created. I was so happy I could almost cry. And then something inside me clicked. . .

What am I doing!? I can't wear these outside. If I put these on and skated on them I could possibly scrape the boot. If I damaged them up I might not be able to see my reflection anymore. Then I thought about how the sun glistened off the chrome. What if I scuff up the chrome!? They might not shine anymore! And the wheels, they were perfectly shaped. I knew that if I wore my new skates the wheels would eventually be worn down. After a few skates they might not even spin smoothly anymore.

A fear grew inside me. I loved these new blades but I was afraid. I didn't know why but something was telling me I had to protect them. I took each one and placed it into their plastic. I went to the kitchen and grabbed some tape. I returned to my room and taped the plastic up. I then took each one of the skates in its plastic and put it back in the box. I closed the box and I taped it up. I put a lot of tape on just to be sure the box didn't open up accidentally. After I finished taping the box I put it in my closet. Now I knew my skates would never break. They would never get scraped or scuffed. They would always look brand new! They would always look just like the day I saw them in the store. . .

I can't really say I felt happy. I actually felt pretty sad, but the good thing is that I knew my rollerblades were safe. I mean its better this way. Isn't it?

I walked outside I noticed a cloud was blocking the sun. I looked down the street and noticed a bunch of kids. They were all skating. Some were jumping and spinning. Others were playing street hockey. I know it's not manly but for some reason a tear ran down my cheek. I knew how much fun they were having and that's all I ever wanted. But would it be worth it? Would all that fun and that excitement be worth the risk of ruining my brand new skates.

I don't know why, but I ran back inside!

I tore open my closet and took out the box! I slashed through the tape and opened the cardboard! Then I saw the plastic. It was tough before but I felt a new energy inside me. I grabbed that plastic and put it in my teeth! I used all my strength and ripped a whole in each one! My skates dropped to the floor! I picked them up and noticed a little nick in the boot. I ran my finger over the nick and smiled.

I ran outside and sat on my front steps. I threw off my shoes and put on each skate. I made sure I buckled them tight! They fit perfectly!!!! I stood up and all of sudden the sun broke through the cloud. I felt the rays on my face. I felt alive. And at that exact moment I knew. . .

The fun has only just begun.

It seems every time someone gets hurt they put up a wall. This wall makes it hard for anyone to get close to the person. Some people put up a lot of walls to protect themselves, but these walls don't only protect. These walls also prevent someone from loving and expressing their true feelings and emotions.

So I say, don't be afraid to get hurt again. Don't put up too many walls. Don't let your walls be too thick. It's a risk and if you ask me the risk is worth it.

江惠&阿杜-夢中的情話

My all time fav!!!!

領悟

小三的出現是為了讓你看清楚，
身邊的那個人並不值得你愛，
無所謂任何爭吵愈責怪…

能被搶走的愛人就不算愛人，
能背叛你的人同樣也能背叛小三，
不如大方地展現出你的仁慈，
把你的他拱手送給小三…
 有一天你會發現

你的仁慈，

才是對小三最殘忍的報復…

江蕙- 無人熟識

哪會到今嘛才知影　原來恁走甲這呢偎

朋友的感情煞來 哄戲弄　失望的心情無底放

閃爍的目睭內塊講白賊　乎我心肝頭是痛歸工

嘸忍心來拆破妳 欺騙的話　麥擱講遐呢最...

李翊君-沙漠寂寞

安心亞-人兒何處歸MV

余心冷胜三冬雪，莫逆从今作路人。
老死互相休再问，平生彼此莫重逢。
七情皆断如流水，六欲全空似过云。
酷爱千年同一梦，天涯望断醉凡尘。
今朝与卿相别离，大笑天下无真心。
兰芝守誓动千古，世美背信骂万年。
狮虎猎物皆震怖，麋鹿为食曾哀怜？
遍看世界古今事，何不挥剑断七情。

要玩火，就要能忍受被火燒的感覺。。。

這幾個星期怎麼睡都好像不足。。。發炎的雙眼，雖然是好了許多可也還沒完全康復。說實話，也未免太久了吧！

那時想不通的事，總算想出了結論。超感謝我那幾位哥哥，十年的交情，愛死你們！！哈哈！！

我不會逃避，而會面對自己。無論我再喜歡一個人，我自己明白我對那個人的感覺只是到那兒為止，不會超出。也能說互相為利益而存在？也許吧。反正只要是他能得到他要的，我會得到我想要的，就行了。。。只要不會傷到別人。。。玩火嘛，刺激的感覺是爽，不過如果不小心就會傷到自己和周邊的人。。傷到自己我是無所謂，覺得自己好像麻木了。不過，是時候放的，我還是會放。我是不會再留下任何人，是會累的。。。沒事幹嘛把自己搞得累死啊？有一次的經過已經是足夠了，何必再跟自己過不去呀。

晚安咯！

九天玄女寶誥

九天玄女救世真經

淨水讚


先天真水。淨洗靈臺。楊枝一滴洗塵埃。凡境寂蓬萊。滌穢消災。香林法界開。

皈命蕩魔解穢大天尊　　 三稱

淨香讚

香焚寶鼎。氣達先天。威光炬赫接雲煙。降 鑒此心虔。展誦靈篇。擁護仗雷鞭。

皈命香林說法大天尊　　 三稱

太上起經讚

祥雲初起。法界氤氳。羅天海島異香騰。到處覆慈雲。達信通誠。萬聖盡遙臨。達信通誠。萬聖

盡遙臨。皈命 大聖香雲浮蓋大天尊　　　三稱

淨口咒

人言從口出。出納必慬防。懾心勿妄吐。清心誦經章。急急如律令。

淨心咒

人心本善良。雜念必提防。虔誠無雜念。仙佛降經堂。急急如律令。

淨身咒

身在紅塵穢氣薰。但須沐浴對高真。身淨更衣無塵染。聖佛仙真即降臨。急急如律令。

九天玄女寶誥 　 　　　　　　　志心皈命禮

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斬妖。逢鬼截頭。上帝敕令。不得停留。 娘奉九道母元尊 急急如律令。　　 三稱

開經偈

九天九天。玄是真仙。頭戴金盔。腳踏火輪。身騎白鶴在雲間。手執寶劍斬妖精。臨凡濟度救良

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玄女仙娘。興儒度世大慈尊。 三稱

九天玄女救世真經本章

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子能孝。汝當先孝奉親前。不孝之人須懺悔。不虧為人在世間。勿謂善惡無報應。遲早有期到身

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任汝金丹成仙佛。不以此寶丹不成。一生惟此不可少。一朝無糧子不親。拋散猶如不孝子。惜穀

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君親師恩汝不畏。枉生塵世讀書人。見吾真經即速改。可免天堪聖賢嗔。從今惜字根本固。上天

護佑汝名成。勸眾生。須保身。萬惡淫首宜先戒。乃可借假來脩真。且看古今狂淫輩。性命江山

概滅亡。紂王寵幸妲妃女。諸侯會上滅成湯。幽王吳王亦如此。董卓呂布因嬋亡。貪淫敗節把命

傷。聞我真經須懺悔。頭頭禁戒姓名香。一靈真性先天物。體是動來靜是靈。悟者栽培及涵養。

成仙成佛及成真。煉就真靈朝金闕。職司護國與佑民。迷人痴痴竟不悟。酒色財氣當寶珍。六慾

七情迷真性。忘卻先天一點靈。吾今指點靈山路。乃在經中仔細尋。至心皈命禮

大悲大願大聖大慈。九天玄女仁慈救世賜福赦罪大慈尊玄女救世著真經。仁慈護國濟良民。忠臣

孝子祈叩請。即駕祥雲降壇庭。遇難避難。迪吉呈祥。孝子誦此經。父母增遐齡。家宅誦此經。

合家保安寧。行人誦此經。途路保安平。舟船佩此經。波浪即刻平。書生看此經。虎榜定標名。

商人誦此經。利路定亨通。婦女誦此經。必獲產麒麟。若為過世父母誦此經。九玄七祖盡超昇。

但須身行心慕。切勿心違不遵。如有妄行詆毀。試吾寶劍斷無情。吾著真經為救世。廣度閻浮世

上人。但願蒼生心早悟。隨吾玄女復先天。志心皈命禮

大悲大願大聖大慈。無極無上九天玄女救苦救難大慈尊

道 德 天 尊 讚 曰

九天玄女功德重。歷劫救世降九重。除奸佞。保仁君。亂臣逆子遭橫禍。死到陰司禁囚 籠。嗟嘆

群黎輩。負義忘恩背聖賢。迷於酒色若狂顛。聽罷真經須懺悔。孝敬雙親崇聖賢。莫貪酒。莫貪

財。忍氣時常記在懷。倘有貪嗔痴愛慾。任汝懺悔亦徒然。執迷不悟甘造孽。難逃疾病禍纏綿。

但能誦經存懺悔。自然清吉福綿綿。

關 聖 帝 君 讚 曰

真經救世本乎仁。普度群倫出迷津。安邦定國護仁君。民安物阜享昇平。寶劍光芒除奸佞。忤逆

難逃禍相侵。但能誦經存懺悔。上天不加悔罪人。匡扶正義宏天道。德配乾坤感天心。歷劫。免

淪凡俗再下塵。會同聖佛顯仙鄉。點化靈泉救萬民。可療瘧疾奇妙病。濟世功恩海樣深。代天宣

化闢法門。中庸大道復中興。四維八德盼宇內。澆漓頹風自消沉。救世真經佈天下。道日光輝照

萬民。

人天教主讚曰

先天大道德無量。廣佈十方放光芒。歷劫救世度迷津。慈悲與佛闢慈航。德澤配天功彪炳。億萬

千秋顯仙鄉。鎮守乾埤施法雨。蒼黎感戴沐恩光。吾今指醒諸眾生。功恩浩大不宜忘。方方闡教

化愚頑。化迷醒悟振倫常。處處開堂播菩提。兆民康泰國運昌。恭誦真經皈依佛。同赴慈航往西

方。

文 宣 聖 王 讚 曰

玄女仙娘著真經。衛國濟良民。功德配天地。救世度迷津。歷經億萬劫。維持道統張四維。儒宗

真傳。八德倫常。匡正人心。不偏不易達康莊。經聲朗誦驚神鬼。消災解厄錫禎祥。

梓 君 讚 曰

真經功德無量。群真普穹蒼。一切妖魔拱首。諸般鬼祟潛藏。萬道祥光普照。千層惡孽皆空。經

聲諷誦。民康物阜。國運隆昌。群黎赤子遵經句。普天之下呈瑞祥。救世真經功德億。殷勤諷誦

度迷津。

收經偈

我能找回失去的感覺嗎？

這陣子發生了一些事，真的讓我有點累。。。原想把舊的稱號所記載的回憶刪除，可也有愉快的，所以有些舍不得。。。只好把稱號給改了。

曾經被說言語和行動不一，仿徨了也迷失了，和哥聊一會兒。雖然談不出一個明確的答案，但至少有哥陪聊就沒那麽郁悶。

哥說時間能說明一切，我相信。可是說明了能怎麼樣。。。我能接受事實嗎？ 或者會因為往事所留下的陰影而逃避？說真的，現在的我的確傷痕蕾蕾，不想找也找不到失去的感覺，害怕會再一次摔死在谷底。

也說了線放長些，最終會找到答案。可是真要是剪斷了線就可能再也找不回了，我會舍得嗎？

人為何有七情六欲？要是沒有，就不會被傷了。

Kate Perry - Part of Me

Days like this,
I want to drive away
Pack my bags
And watch your shadow fade

You chewed me up
And spit me out
Like I was poison in your mouth

You took my light
You drained me down
But that was then
And this is now

Now look at me,

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

I just wanna throw my phone away
Find out who is really there for me

You ripped me off,
Your love was cheap
Was always tearing at the seams,
I fell deep, you let me down,
But that was then and this is now

Now look at me,

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsfreak.com/k/katy+perry/part+of+me_20899440.html ]
Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul.

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no!

Now look at me I'm sparkling,
A firework, a dancin' flame
You won't ever put me out again
I'm glowin', oh woah,

So you can keep the diamond ring
It don't mean nothing anyway,
In fact you can keep everything, yeah, yeah
Except for me!

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

星座们的性子

金牛座
金牛座聪明、逻辑能力强、思维能力强、求知欲强、不断进取。他们往往认为自己是个天才，即使本身不是，他们也比较欣赏天才般的人物。金牛座追求与众不同，所以千万别称金牛为怪胎，他会洋洋得意，不能自己，因为他才懒得跟这一群凡人一样，他宁愿当个异类，也不愿意被当个正常人一般看待。
无论在任何情况下，金牛座都希望自己坚若磐石。在遇到伤心事时，你会觉得她的反应好象很迟钝的。实际上不是这样，只因他们的涵养，不喜怒形于色罢了，嘴角依然可以露出看似甜甜的微笑，但是，也许她的心正在滴血，当她一个人独处时，她也会放声大哭，泪如雨下。
金牛座不善于改变，他喜欢的，就会一直喜欢；他不喜欢的，就永远都不会喜欢。-金牛座可以为朋友两肋插刀，可以做任何事。但他讨厌被别人利用，所以，如果你想与金牛座交朋友，就不要利用他。 如果他知道了，虽然嘴上不说，但是心里会开始慢慢讨厌你。
金牛座爱一个人总有一个固定的过程，开始表现得很热烈，往后就是平淡，再往后可能看不出来了。很多人会误解你的爱情是图一时新鲜，三分钟热度，其实不然。只是越往后，越深爱，然后就沉默。默默地关心你，默默地对你好……因为金牛座的爱是经得起沉淀的。
被金牛座爱上的人是幸福的，但你一定得懂：金牛性格很奇怪，有时候超爱说话，有时候可以一天不说话；高兴的时候，会拼命的说话，不高兴的时候，一句话也不说。金牛座不爱记仇，但谁对他好，谁对他不好，他还是记得很清楚的。
金牛其实很想念曾经，关于那些人、那些事，不是说忘掉就能忘掉。想念曾经肆无忌惮的笑。想念曾经的喜怒哀乐。想念曾经天真的誓言。想念曾经一切的一切。只是，如今我已释怀。谁都不会是谁的谁。谁也不会一辈子陪在谁的身边。金牛只是希望我们都好好的。好好的笑，好好的过，好好的一辈子。
摘自：@金牛座频道

十二星座的愛情堅持度

★白羊座愛情堅持程度：☆
他們的耐心原本就很不夠，一旦遇到不愉快的事情更是想轉頭就走，還有什麼撐不撐的問題。


★金牛座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆
一切都是命啊！金牛座的人一旦愛上了對方就很不容易改變，就算是不愉快，他也隻會說自己命苦，對方不分手的話，他也不分手。


★雙子座
愛情堅持程度：☆
對於愛情既沒有耐心又沒有毅力的雙子座，遇到不愉快的關係時，就馬上見異思遷，反正他們的經典名言就是隻在乎曾經擁有。


★巨蟹座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
這個很念舊的星座不會輕易說分手，就算對方對他再壞，他也會賴在那裡不肯走，並且認為這段關係一定還有救。


★獅子座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
他們的關係不容易切斷，如果這是一段不愉快的關係，他會想辦法讓這段關係變得愉快些，如果依然無用，他才會直接說分手。


★處女座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
就算對方對他不好，他也會先認為是自己有問題，然後才發現對方的態度真的惡劣，可是，就算到了這個地步他們也不會輕易分手的。


★天秤座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
他們考慮的很多、很仔細，也講求正當性，就算在一段相敬如賓的關係當中，他們也不會主動開口說分手，除非對方的把柄讓他抓到了，他才敢鼓起勇氣說分手。


★天蠍座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
不輕易分手的原因是因為天蠍的執念，天蠍總是相信自己有能力改變對方，或者你既然對我不好，我也不會輕易放過你，於是就這樣成了一段孽緣。


★射手座
愛情堅持程度：☆
三輪車跑得快，射手座跑得更快，一旦他發現對方臉臭臭的時候，他就已經溜得不見人影，就連再見都懶得說了！


★摩羯座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
摩羯座講求實際，雖然是一段不愉快的關係，如果對方還有利用價值，那就繼續利用，如果沒有了說再見也無妨！


★水瓶座
愛情堅持程度：☆
當一段關係開始變得不愉快時，水瓶座就會開始見異思遷，不過他也會冷靜觀察，到底什麼時候適合說分手，耐心不太夠的他們通常會主動提分手。


★雙魚座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
為什麼？為什麼？雙魚座遇上一段不愉快的關係時，就會開始不由自主的問自己和對方，沒有想過要分手，卻想要鬧得天翻地覆人仰馬翻，直到雙方都筋疲力盡還不放手。

What men want in a relationship

Written By: Freddiek70

There are a great number of articles out there about how women wished to be treated by men, but not so many articles about how men wish to be treated by women...

This is a general view and not a specific view so if you feel offended by elements in this article, that is not my intention. Please read it for its purpose and not as a personal slight towards women.

There is a great difference between what each sex thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want. What women think men want from them causes women to have resentment and anger toward men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them causes them much of the same feelings and frustration.

The thing is that we would realize that both men and women are human beings first and pretty much want the same thing.

1. Men want honest, timely, loving communication

Honest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity.
It can be extremely frustrating for men if left to decode what a woman is communicating.

Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up.

A tip for women: Men want and need straightforward, courageous communication without anger or criticism. One way to attract a man and build a satisfying relationship is to learn how to communicate your truth and needs effectively.

2. Men want self-sufficient, secure, confident women.
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.

On the other hand, men treasure time spent with a loving partner. Women think men don’t want women to need them. Women think men do not need or appreciate time spent together as a couple. Women believe that showing a man he is needed will turn him off and possibly make him run away.

A tip for women: Men want what women want — a whole partner. One powerful way to attract a man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfillment.

3. Men want a manipulation-free relationship.

Men want no manipulation of any kind. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.

Women think men want little or no communication, and the only way to get needs met is through manipulation. Women think men either need or want to be reminded that the relationship needs to move forward. Women think men don’t want or value praise and acknowledgment, and so tend to only verbalize criticism.

A tip for women: Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life. Learn to be aware of his timing and his time-line. Learn how to acknowledge and bestow praise.

4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.

Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.

Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.

A tip for women: Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.

5. Men want fidelity and a commitment to the relationship.

Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.

Women think that all men want is sex, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women think men cannot be trusted to be faithful. Women believe men do not want to work on a relationship; that when the going gets tough, they run.

A tip for women: Here is great news for those women who are resigned to the myth that all men cheat: infidelity and “a roaming eye” are as distasteful to men as they are to women. Men know how to build a wonderful relationship, and they know fidelity is the main ingredient.

 

6. Men want women who know how men need to be treated.
Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.

Women think men do not need them, do not value their opinion, their support, their praise. Women also think men do not care about many things important to women, which is why they criticize. Criticism is a way to verbalize resentment.

A tip for women: Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.

Making Love Versus Having Sex

Written By: A-R-Norman

Eddie Murphy was once quoted as saying that there is no difference between the act of lovemaking and the act of sex. Since then, I have had men say to me, "You know, why are women so hung up on the whole sex and making love idea-it's the same thing?"

I'd say yes and no. The physical act is the same. The emotional act is what is different, and in my humble opinion, until someone actually makes love to another human being, they will always think that the two are similar.

There have been countless times in my marriage where my husband and I just enjoyed one another's body's, as well as times when we spiritually connected via intercourse. The soulful bonding wasn't something that happened instantaneously either.

When my husband and I first met, I was very afraid to get close and my walls were up. The sex between us was always amazing, but I constantly held a part of myself back.

One night, I started opening up about a lot of my fears and worries, after which he lovingly reassured me. We started kissing and soon, we engaged in what I would have to say is the first love making session I have ever had in my life. Many glorious orgasms were had by yours truly, to the point where I developed a head ache due to the intensity (I learned this is not all that uncommon.) I cried from the sheer pleasure of it-he wiped my tears-we kissed, touched, laughed-continued on.

Afterwards, we lay in the afterglow, talking and connecting on such a deep level, I don't think words will ever describe it.

That my dears, was not sex. That was love making.

I fear what the Eddie Murphy's of the world don't know, is that emotional connection is just as important as a physical one. If you can only connect with a person on a superficial level, than everything you do with a person will be superficial, including sex.

That is not to say that every second of ever moment is going to be angelic ecstasy.

My partner and I fight, get involved with work and projects, deal with kids and family and tackle the daily grind - we also grab the occasional, unromantic quickie or two.

What I am talking about is intimacy-the feeling you get when you look into the eyes of another person and know they see you, and you them.

Such a thing is a wondrous blessing that is perhaps not bestowed upon everyone. For this amazing butterfly to land on your hand, you have to first believe it exists, then be willing to receive it, palm up, without reservation.

Until such time, most will go on thinking that sex can only be a physical act, while those in the know will continue to enjoy the beauty that can be found in the arms of someone who truly and completely cherishes you.

Clubbing.. ah siol~~~ :X

Relationships... LOLL

How to be in an open relationship

Written by: madmisskelly


The last thing this is is a lesson in promiscuity.

I am in no way convincing anyone to do this.

What this IS is a guide for those who are considering this. This is a guide so that YOU can maintain control and come out of these situations with your dignity and ego.

First of all, don't believe the “women are too emotional” stuff - not true. Women are perfectly capable of keeping a rational mind even in these situations and I will show you how.

None of this involves any game playing. There is no lying or deception. Contrary to popular belief, these situations need a bit of control for them to work for BOTH people and for NEITHER person to get hurt.

Phase 1: Prepare

1. Decide if this is really what you want. If you can never see yourself having one night stands or open relationships then this isn't for you or you may just not be ready for one and that is just fine.

2. Decide what you want. These situations are ideal when you plan to move within the year, you just got out of a relationship or you just want to play the field.

3. Decide from this point on that you won't take anything that happens personally. You don't take rejection to heart because you yourself will do quite a lot of rejecting.

4. Be prepared that you are going to have to view the opposite sex in a new light. Don't dehumanize them, because they still have feelings and emotions just like you. The key is to NOT be mean but to be blunt and view each guy as a goal.

Phase 2: Seek

1. Options are everywhere, not just bars. Think someone is cute? Talk to them, chat them up and get their number. You have NOTHING to lose because if they reject you, no problem - you've got options.

2. When you find a guy chat him up - light hearted stuff, things that you would talk to your classmate about- hence no “where do you see yourself in 5 years” type of questions.

3. It is best to not enter into these situations with guys that you would otherwise be in a relationship with because more than likely, you will fall for them. Ideal guys are ones that are almost right for you but there are just reasons why it could never work.

4. Once you've talked to the guy for a couple days one of two things will happen. The conversation of where you see the situation going will come up or it won't. If it does, that is when you be honest and say you don't want commitment. If it doesn't come up, bring it up in a non confrontational way. When you two are hanging out, just tell him “hey, just so you know, I'm not looking for anything serious but I really enjoy your company.” It gets the point across, you've been honest, and it keeps it light hearted which is what you want.

5. Have deal breakers. Just because you aren't looking to commit doesn't mean you have to be treated like crap. If you don't want to be called at midnight, say so. If you want him to plan ahead on when you two get together it is fair to ask. Its not necessary to have a conversation about your deal breakers but if you don't like what he is doing then say something.
6. I've found that having boundaries is helpful in keeping the situation in perspective. Personally, I advise against dates that don't immediately lead to a “goal.” Even so, it is drinks at the most. The only time I think it is acceptable is say, cheap takeout pizza and beers - not very date-like and is harmless. Hanging out outside of hooking up is a bit iffy. It's not bad to become friendly with them but at the same time that friendship trust is a dangerous thing to develop with the other person because feelings could develop.

I also don't talk on the phone or talk at length via text. I keep a lot of things to myself because he is NOT a boyfriend and therefore I won't confide in him. I keep details about myself to a minimum. Basically, my time with him is light and fun- he knows the basics about me and I know the basics about him. It isn't the time to talk about fears and insecurities.

that don't immediately lead to a 'goal.'"
7. There is an old saying that goes “don't put all your eggs in one basket.” This is something I think is true in open relationships. The moment you put EVERYTHING into one person you will fall for them. Once you have one option, be on the prowl for another even if you don't actually get involved with them. Flirt, talk, get numbers, etc.It helps you remind yourself that there are more options that just this one guy.

8. Realize that these things aren't built to last. They tend to last a few months and that is perfectly fine. If you don't expect a whole lot out of the situation then you wont be disappointed.

Golden Rules

1. Safe sex is a must- condoms and birth control are absolutely necessary if you are going to be sexually involved. No unwanted STDs and no unwanted pregnancies.

2. If at any point you feel unsafe, get out of there and don't become involved with someone who you feel could hurt you.

3. Let your friends know where you are so you have an out.

4. Never leave the bar with a guy and don't let him lead you out of the bar away from your friends and certainly do not take him back to your car or his car. In the event that you meet someone at a bar and either of you has been drinking, get their number and wait until you have sobered up, meet with him sober and then make a decision.

5. If you feel yourself starting to fall for the other person then do yourself a favor and get out of it now.

YES!! i'm done with econs!!!!! Thank you Mr Morgan, I shall see u @ Katong instead of class!!!! Biz stats, u r the next & last to get rid, and i'll be done!!

Another piece of awesome news...Bro is back!!!!! after 3 months of exchange, he's finally back!! And i've got someone to share the 'vocals' from our big boss enviromental ofcr of the house... & drinking kaki wahahhaha!!!

Apr will be a super bz month for me,... bdays!!!! After 8 years of friendship, i'm finally celebrating bday for & with Lim Jia. Hahas.. felt bad for postponing & rejecting his invitations for god knows how many years, but for this year, we're celebrating our bdays together!! able to catch up w yao hong after so long too!!! Really looking forward to it.. ^_^

哭的时候没有人哄，
我学会了坚强；
怕的时候没有人陪，
我学会了勇敢；
烦的时候没有人问，
我学会了承受；
累的时候没有人可以依靠，
我学会了自立；
就这样的我找到了自己，
原来成熟是被逼出来的。

Ana Dana / I'm Dana

Clarice was telling me I could pull off this song cause it's hiao... found the MV, really hiao!!! lyrics translated to English as follows... thanks babe, i'm totally hooked to this rhythm :PP

Shh Shh Shh look at me look

Shh Shh Shh look at me look

I'm Dana im dan dan

open your eyes and you eat Turkish delight

you'll see my dance and my coquetry and you'll be my precious all my love and hope and I'll spoil you
I'll dance for you this belly dance there is no better from my country we'll eat and drink and move sensously

Shh Shh Shh look at me look
Shh Shh Shh look at me look

and I'll tell you and you'll tell me I'll sing for you listen to me
you'll see my dance and my coquetry and you'll be my precious all my love and hope
I'll spoil you

No no no I'll dance to a table and tambourine
No no no I'll dance to a table and tambourine

Yes yes yes when I'm with him
Yes yes yes when I'm with him

I'm looking at him and his looking at me
I whispering to him whispering to me

He'll see my dance and my coquetry and he will be precious all my love and and hope and I'll spoil him
I'll belly dance for him this belly dance there is no better from my country we'll eat and drink and oh, move sensuously

Shh Shh Shh look at me look
why don't you look
Shh Shh Shh look at me look
why don't you look

Shh Shh Shh look at me look
come on Shh Shh Shh look at me look
Shh Shh Shh look at me look
i'm dana i'm dan dan

Home from work... have been burning wee morning oil these weeks for works in MINDEF. Freaking no life & turning into a panda.  All these will be OVER once works are completed from MINDEF premises.... let's go ahead with the omission oh YES!!!! *daydream* THANK GOD mom has been cooking barley/herbal tea on weekends, chicken soup on every sun, & not to forget facial mask on Suns as well. Am now waiting for my masks of My Beauty Diary from Sunnanz... Wahahaha!! 250 pcs!!! & i'm gonna use it more than once a week... *evil laughter*

The weather is so unpredictable these days that it's been raining in the am for past few days, i can't even swim in the morning. And to make the matter worse, i've freaking no idea where's my Nokia 101... meaning i lost it... when it's only prolly 2 weeks with me. I've searched high & low for it the entire morning & yesterday but in vain... guess i dropped in e cab otw back.

Quote of today: Marriage is a cert that costs few tens of dollars to purchase, and thousands of bucks to burn it.