His attitude
The crowd follows him… and when they don’t follow, he doesn’t give a damn. He has his own style and frequently makes things stylish. He’s a little different… a tad mysterious… a little out of reach. He looks like a normal guy with a bit of “dangerous” mixed in for good measure.
His swagger and sex appeal around women
He has a walk that oozes SEX. He walks like he has a foot-long block of gold and diamonds between his legs and he’s not afraid to use it. He talks to women like they are “wo-man”… different than him, but still his worthy complement. He lets you know through his alpha male behavior and actions that he will DO YOU sooooo good… the best you ever had. (But of course, he has to believe that he will before he ever gets a chance to do it.)
His verbal play
He doesn’t let you win when he believes that he’s right. He will challenge you on the things you say and make you evaluate yourself. He gives you a run for your money in conversation. He’s not afraid to call you out. He doesn’t appease women and compliments flow to you only if they are completely deserved.
His charisma
He can talk to anyone. He has a big smile and a huge personality. He is spontaneous and likes to have a good time. His energy fills a room and he can rally a crowd to follow him. He can be serious, and in that seriousness, you see a hint of a softer side… but just a hint.
His leadership
He takes control of situations and is cordial, but you never know where you stand with him. He has a bit of a poker face. “Does he like me?” and “Does he think I’m interesting?” are floating through your mind as you stare into his eyes. He’s one step past friendly… he might smile a bit… but you’re simply not sure if he thinks you’re awesome or the suckiest person on earth.
His independence
He tells you exactly who he is and what he wants. He doesn’t have time to play games. He’s busy creating worlds and expanding his personal universe… whether at work or in other professional endeavors. He lets you know that you are a woman… and that you come SECOND to him and his goals… but he wants you by his side… he knows you have the power to bring out the best in him.
His persistence
He doesn’t let anyone tell him what he can or cannot do. He sometimes asks for what he wants and a lot of times he TAKES what he wants. That includes a phone number, a kiss, or more. He’s relentless in getting what he wants and he uses his whole bag of tricks to do it. A natural salesman… he’s always two steps ahead of you.
His honesty and dominating, deep stare
He has a no-nonsense way of communicating... blunt in his speech and doesn’t let you control him. He makes jokes that are a bit over your head and makes you wonder if he’s laughing with you or at you. His conversation leaves you wanting more… but you’re not sure why.
His easy-going, but sexually-charged vibe
He lets you know that he likes sex and will do it with you when HE’s ready. He is not concerned about whether or not you will “Let him”… he’s too busy deciding whether he “Wants to” or not. He doesn’t press for it, but he’s constantly leading you toward it… with the look in his eye, the raised eyebrow, the suggestions of sexy games like Strip Wii Bowling… he’s always leading you towards the bedroom. And you’re laughing and having a good time all the way there.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Japan Quake May Have Shortened Earth Days, Moved Axis
The March 11, magnitude 9.0 earthquake in Japan may have shortened the length of each Earth day and shifted its axis. But don't worry—you won't notice the difference.
Using a United States Geological Survey estimate for how the fault responsible for the earthquake slipped, research scientist Richard Gross of NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory, Pasadena, Calif., applied a complex model to perform a preliminary theoretical calculation of how the Japan earthquake—the fifth largest since 1900—affected Earth's rotation. His calculations indicate that by changing the distribution of Earth's mass, the Japanese earthquake should have caused Earth to rotate a bit faster, shortening the length of the day by about 1.8 microseconds (a microsecond is one millionth of a second).
The calculations also show the Japan quake should have shifted the position of Earth's figure axis (the axis about which Earth's mass is balanced) by about 17 centimeters (6.5 inches), towards 133 degrees east longitude. Earth's figure axis should not be confused with its north-south axis; they are offset by about 10 meters (about 33 feet). This shift in Earth's figure axis will cause Earth to wobble a bit differently as it rotates, but it will not cause a shift of Earth's axis in space—only external forces such as the gravitational attraction of the sun, moon and planets can do that.
Both calculations will likely change as data on the quake are further refined.
In comparison, following last year's magnitude 8.8 earthquake in Chile, Gross estimated the Chile quake should have shortened the length of day by about 1.26 microseconds and shifted Earth's figure axis by about 8 centimeters (3 inches). A similar calculation performed after the 2004 magnitude 9.1 Sumatran earthquake revealed it should have shortened the length of day by 6.8 microseconds and shifted Earth's figure axis by about 7 centimeters, or 2.76 inches. How an individual earthquake affects Earth's rotation depends on its size (magnitude), location and the details of how the fault slipped.
Gross said that, in theory, anything that redistributes Earth's mass will change Earth's rotation.
"Earth's rotation changes all the time as a result of not only earthquakes, but also the much larger effects of changes in atmospheric winds and oceanic currents," he said. "Over the course of a year, the length of the day increases and decreases by about a millisecond, or about 550 times larger than the change caused by the Japanese earthquake. The position of Earth's figure axis also changes all the time, by about 1 meter (3.3 feet) over the course of a year, or about six times more than the change that should have been caused by the Japan quake."
Gross said that while we can measure the effects of the atmosphere and ocean on Earth's rotation, the effects of earthquakes, at least up until now, have been too small to measure. The computed change in the length of day caused by earthquakes is much smaller than the accuracy with which scientists can currently measure changes in the length of the day. However, since the position of the figure axis can be measured to an accuracy of about 5 centimeters (2 inches), the estimated 17-centimeter shift in the figure axis from the Japan quake may actually be large enough to observe if scientists can adequately remove the larger effects of the atmosphere and ocean from the Earth rotation measurements. He and other scientists will be investigating this as more data become available.
Gross said the changes in Earth's rotation and figure axis caused by earthquakes should not have any impacts on our daily lives. "These changes in Earth's rotation are perfectly natural and happen all the time," he said. "People shouldn't worry about them."
Alan Buis 818-354-0474
Jet Propulsion Laboratory, Pasadena, Calif.
Alan.buis@jpl.nasa.gov
2011-080
*Published on NASA official website on 14 March 2011
Using a United States Geological Survey estimate for how the fault responsible for the earthquake slipped, research scientist Richard Gross of NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory, Pasadena, Calif., applied a complex model to perform a preliminary theoretical calculation of how the Japan earthquake—the fifth largest since 1900—affected Earth's rotation. His calculations indicate that by changing the distribution of Earth's mass, the Japanese earthquake should have caused Earth to rotate a bit faster, shortening the length of the day by about 1.8 microseconds (a microsecond is one millionth of a second).
The calculations also show the Japan quake should have shifted the position of Earth's figure axis (the axis about which Earth's mass is balanced) by about 17 centimeters (6.5 inches), towards 133 degrees east longitude. Earth's figure axis should not be confused with its north-south axis; they are offset by about 10 meters (about 33 feet). This shift in Earth's figure axis will cause Earth to wobble a bit differently as it rotates, but it will not cause a shift of Earth's axis in space—only external forces such as the gravitational attraction of the sun, moon and planets can do that.
Both calculations will likely change as data on the quake are further refined.
In comparison, following last year's magnitude 8.8 earthquake in Chile, Gross estimated the Chile quake should have shortened the length of day by about 1.26 microseconds and shifted Earth's figure axis by about 8 centimeters (3 inches). A similar calculation performed after the 2004 magnitude 9.1 Sumatran earthquake revealed it should have shortened the length of day by 6.8 microseconds and shifted Earth's figure axis by about 7 centimeters, or 2.76 inches. How an individual earthquake affects Earth's rotation depends on its size (magnitude), location and the details of how the fault slipped.
Gross said that, in theory, anything that redistributes Earth's mass will change Earth's rotation.
"Earth's rotation changes all the time as a result of not only earthquakes, but also the much larger effects of changes in atmospheric winds and oceanic currents," he said. "Over the course of a year, the length of the day increases and decreases by about a millisecond, or about 550 times larger than the change caused by the Japanese earthquake. The position of Earth's figure axis also changes all the time, by about 1 meter (3.3 feet) over the course of a year, or about six times more than the change that should have been caused by the Japan quake."
Gross said that while we can measure the effects of the atmosphere and ocean on Earth's rotation, the effects of earthquakes, at least up until now, have been too small to measure. The computed change in the length of day caused by earthquakes is much smaller than the accuracy with which scientists can currently measure changes in the length of the day. However, since the position of the figure axis can be measured to an accuracy of about 5 centimeters (2 inches), the estimated 17-centimeter shift in the figure axis from the Japan quake may actually be large enough to observe if scientists can adequately remove the larger effects of the atmosphere and ocean from the Earth rotation measurements. He and other scientists will be investigating this as more data become available.
Gross said the changes in Earth's rotation and figure axis caused by earthquakes should not have any impacts on our daily lives. "These changes in Earth's rotation are perfectly natural and happen all the time," he said. "People shouldn't worry about them."
Alan Buis 818-354-0474
Jet Propulsion Laboratory, Pasadena, Calif.
Alan.buis@jpl.nasa.gov
2011-080
*Published on NASA official website on 14 March 2011
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Some random stuff...
I'm only speaking for women of my gen, and in general. If you feel offended in any way, do yourself a favour by getting outta here.
Seriously, I still dont understand the reason of having the majority whom don't enjoy and don't know how to give bjs... I've always thought that its in us, women. And how could we dislike the idea of giving?
Bj is something which can be learnt, either through friends, online, etc. But definitely, you cant fake enjoyment. If you don't like it, you will hate it more as you did more... unless, you gotta change the way of your thoughts. you gotta learn how to embrace the wonderful feeling.
I'm lazy to post how to give a good bj, so here's e link: Blowjob Tutorial
Enjoy & have fun!!
Seriously, I still dont understand the reason of having the majority whom don't enjoy and don't know how to give bjs... I've always thought that its in us, women. And how could we dislike the idea of giving?
Bj is something which can be learnt, either through friends, online, etc. But definitely, you cant fake enjoyment. If you don't like it, you will hate it more as you did more... unless, you gotta change the way of your thoughts. you gotta learn how to embrace the wonderful feeling.
I'm lazy to post how to give a good bj, so here's e link: Blowjob Tutorial
Enjoy & have fun!!
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
4 Things Women Should Be Doing in Their Fitness Training—But Aren’t
If your workouts consist of doing light weights and steady-state cardio, you might be in for some bad news: These things alone won’t likely get you the results you’re after, say experts. To increase your fitness level, burn fat, and improve muscle tone, you’ve got to step up your game.
Here are four things women tend to skip that can deliver serious results.
1. High-intensity training.
All that time coasting on the elliptical at a comfortable pace probably hasn’t done much for your body, says Panama-based trainer Belinda Benn, creator of the Breakthrough Physique home fitness system. In fact, the biggest mistake women make in their training is not exercising with enough intensity, she says.
High-intensity interval training, or HIIT, is typically a 10- to 20-minute workout that alternates short, intense bursts of activity with moderate-exertion recovery periods. “High-intensity interval training is the best way to improve your overall fitness, burn fat, and stimulate your hormones for a stronger body,” says Benn.
How to tell if you’re training hard enough? Look to your body for clues, Benn says. Good indicators are sweating, increased heart rate, and lactic acid production (i.e., feeling the “burn”) during exercise. Moderate muscle soreness for up to a few days post-workout is also a good sign. “If you feel nothing,” Benn says, “you probably didn’t work out hard enough.”
2. Heavier lifting.
For most women, a typical weight-training session equals light dumbbell exercises, says Toronto-based strength and conditioning specialist Craig Ballantyne, creator of the Turbulence Training Program. But doing fewer reps with more weight—say, 8 reps per set with a 15-pound dumbbell, instead of 15 reps with an 8-pound one—will burn more fat, he says. Lifting heavier will also increase your strength and muscle definition.
Start by swapping out your normal weights for slightly heavier ones, and gradually work your way up.
3. Upper body workouts.
Women tend to store body fat around the waist, hips, and thighs, so that’s where they typically focus their exercise efforts—neglecting their upper bodies, Benn says.
But you can’t spot-reduce fat, and sticking with what’s easy can stunt your progress, says Benn. Because you may feel weak while attempting pull-ups for the first time, Benn suggests doing the hard stuff at the start of your workout, “when you’re freshest and feeling mentally strong.”
“Focusing on underdeveloped muscles will improve the contours of your body,” Benn says.
4. Training with a barbell.
Think barbells are synonymous with back-breaking chest presses? Not so. “You can do a tremendous workout just with a barbell,” Benn says. “If you’re holding a bar rather than using two separate weights, it forces you to get your body in sync.”
Barbells are great for both upper- and lower-body exercises. Balancing one across your shoulders while doing squats, lunges, or walking lunges helps develop posture and balance, Benn says.
If you’re flirting with a barbell for the first time, go as light as you need to. Even 10 pounds is a good start.
Bonus tip:
If you’re worried you’ll bulk up with any of these exercises, consider your body type. Benn says women generally fall into two categories: those who build muscle easily, and those who don’t. If you build muscle easily, she suggests emphasizing high-intensity exercises. If you develop muscle slowly, you’ll benefit from spending more time on heavy lifting.
*Chelsea Bush writes for AskFitnessCoach, a site that promotes a down-to-earth approach to fitness and weight loss.
Here are four things women tend to skip that can deliver serious results.
1. High-intensity training.
All that time coasting on the elliptical at a comfortable pace probably hasn’t done much for your body, says Panama-based trainer Belinda Benn, creator of the Breakthrough Physique home fitness system. In fact, the biggest mistake women make in their training is not exercising with enough intensity, she says.
High-intensity interval training, or HIIT, is typically a 10- to 20-minute workout that alternates short, intense bursts of activity with moderate-exertion recovery periods. “High-intensity interval training is the best way to improve your overall fitness, burn fat, and stimulate your hormones for a stronger body,” says Benn.
How to tell if you’re training hard enough? Look to your body for clues, Benn says. Good indicators are sweating, increased heart rate, and lactic acid production (i.e., feeling the “burn”) during exercise. Moderate muscle soreness for up to a few days post-workout is also a good sign. “If you feel nothing,” Benn says, “you probably didn’t work out hard enough.”
2. Heavier lifting.
For most women, a typical weight-training session equals light dumbbell exercises, says Toronto-based strength and conditioning specialist Craig Ballantyne, creator of the Turbulence Training Program. But doing fewer reps with more weight—say, 8 reps per set with a 15-pound dumbbell, instead of 15 reps with an 8-pound one—will burn more fat, he says. Lifting heavier will also increase your strength and muscle definition.
Start by swapping out your normal weights for slightly heavier ones, and gradually work your way up.
3. Upper body workouts.
Women tend to store body fat around the waist, hips, and thighs, so that’s where they typically focus their exercise efforts—neglecting their upper bodies, Benn says.
But you can’t spot-reduce fat, and sticking with what’s easy can stunt your progress, says Benn. Because you may feel weak while attempting pull-ups for the first time, Benn suggests doing the hard stuff at the start of your workout, “when you’re freshest and feeling mentally strong.”
“Focusing on underdeveloped muscles will improve the contours of your body,” Benn says.
4. Training with a barbell.
Think barbells are synonymous with back-breaking chest presses? Not so. “You can do a tremendous workout just with a barbell,” Benn says. “If you’re holding a bar rather than using two separate weights, it forces you to get your body in sync.”
Barbells are great for both upper- and lower-body exercises. Balancing one across your shoulders while doing squats, lunges, or walking lunges helps develop posture and balance, Benn says.
If you’re flirting with a barbell for the first time, go as light as you need to. Even 10 pounds is a good start.
Bonus tip:
If you’re worried you’ll bulk up with any of these exercises, consider your body type. Benn says women generally fall into two categories: those who build muscle easily, and those who don’t. If you build muscle easily, she suggests emphasizing high-intensity exercises. If you develop muscle slowly, you’ll benefit from spending more time on heavy lifting.
*Chelsea Bush writes for AskFitnessCoach, a site that promotes a down-to-earth approach to fitness and weight loss.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Man jailed for stealing manhole covers
SINGAPORE: A 36-year-old man has been jailed for five weeks after stealing 19 PUB manhole covers worth S$3,800.
By doing this, Abdul Rahim Ramli was also convicted of performing a rash act as he then left gaping holes on road surfaces which endangered the safety of others.
One taxi got stuck in the middle of the road because of his act.
Abdul Rahim pleaded guilty on Thursday to four charges while 16 others were taken into consideration.
Abdul Rahim admitted he stole the manhole covers from places such as Ang Mo Kio Avenue 6 and Bedok Ria Crescent in December, last year.
He committed the offences with 37-year-old Juraimy Mohamed Hashim who was also sentenced on Wednesday to five weeks' jail.
The two men drove around the island in a van to steal the manhole covers which were then sold to an unknown China national for about S$200 each.
The court heard that due to the stolen cover at Bedok Ria Crescent, one of the rear wheels of a taxi ended up in an open manhole at around 2pm on December 14. As a result, the vehicle was stuck in the middle of the road.
Even though the taxi was not damaged and nobody was hurt in the incident, the cabby, 56-year-old Tan Thiam Poh, had to fork out S$60 to call for a tow truck to move his vehicle out of the manhole.
The prosecution stressed that missing manhole covers endangered the safety of road users and can damage vehicles.
Those who accidentally fall through the manholes can also be seriously injured.
For stealing the manhole covers, Abdul Rahim could have been jailed up to three years and fined for each charge.
And for performing the rash act, he could have been jailed up to six months and fined a maximum of S$2,500.
-CNA/wk
By doing this, Abdul Rahim Ramli was also convicted of performing a rash act as he then left gaping holes on road surfaces which endangered the safety of others.
One taxi got stuck in the middle of the road because of his act.
Abdul Rahim pleaded guilty on Thursday to four charges while 16 others were taken into consideration.
Abdul Rahim admitted he stole the manhole covers from places such as Ang Mo Kio Avenue 6 and Bedok Ria Crescent in December, last year.
He committed the offences with 37-year-old Juraimy Mohamed Hashim who was also sentenced on Wednesday to five weeks' jail.
The two men drove around the island in a van to steal the manhole covers which were then sold to an unknown China national for about S$200 each.
The court heard that due to the stolen cover at Bedok Ria Crescent, one of the rear wheels of a taxi ended up in an open manhole at around 2pm on December 14. As a result, the vehicle was stuck in the middle of the road.
Even though the taxi was not damaged and nobody was hurt in the incident, the cabby, 56-year-old Tan Thiam Poh, had to fork out S$60 to call for a tow truck to move his vehicle out of the manhole.
The prosecution stressed that missing manhole covers endangered the safety of road users and can damage vehicles.
Those who accidentally fall through the manholes can also be seriously injured.
For stealing the manhole covers, Abdul Rahim could have been jailed up to three years and fined for each charge.
And for performing the rash act, he could have been jailed up to six months and fined a maximum of S$2,500.
-CNA/wk
Friday, February 18, 2011
Budget 2011: S$90m set aside for children 6 years old & below
SINGAPORE: The government will introduce further measures to help families with children meet their expenses.
A new Child Development Credit scheme will be introduced for all Singaporean children aged six years old and below.
Children born between January 1, 2005 and December 31, 2011 are eligible.
Announcing this in his Budget statement, Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam said 80 per cent of families will receive S$400 per child.
Meanwhile the remaining 20 per cent, who are better off, will receive S$300 per child.
The money will be paid into the Children Development Accounts and can be used to pay their children's pre-school, childcare and medical expenses.
The Child Development Credit will cost the government about S$90 million and benefit more than 220,000 children aged six years old and below.
The payout will start in July this year.
Notification letters will be sent by June, to parents of eligible children.
The government will also enhance the Kindergarten Financial Assistance Scheme (Kifas) and the Centre-based Financial Assistance Scheme for childcare (CFAC) which currently provide subsidies to lower-income families.
The subsidies will be extended to a larger group of families, including those with up to S$3,500 in gross monthly household income.
Separately, some S$100 million will be pumped into schools for Edusave grants.
Meanwhile, a one-off top-up of S$4.7 million will be put into funds of School Advisory Committees and School Management Committees to help needy Singaporeans students.
There will also be more help for those attending special education schools (SPED).
The MOE Financial Assistance Scheme will also be extended to those from lower-income families.
Mr Tharman said with such a move, SPED students from such families will be fully subsidised for their school fees, uniforms and textbooks.
They will also receive a 75 per cent subsidy on their exam fees.
And to keep higher education affordable, Mr Tharman said undergraduate and diploma bursaries will also increase significantly to benefit students from both lower- and middle-income families.
University students from the bottom one-third of households will benefit from an 80 per cent increase in bursaries, from the current S$1,600 a year to S$2,900 a year.
Mr Tharman said the measures will cost an additional $120 million per year.
-CNA/wk
A new Child Development Credit scheme will be introduced for all Singaporean children aged six years old and below.
Children born between January 1, 2005 and December 31, 2011 are eligible.
Announcing this in his Budget statement, Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam said 80 per cent of families will receive S$400 per child.
Meanwhile the remaining 20 per cent, who are better off, will receive S$300 per child.
The money will be paid into the Children Development Accounts and can be used to pay their children's pre-school, childcare and medical expenses.
The Child Development Credit will cost the government about S$90 million and benefit more than 220,000 children aged six years old and below.
The payout will start in July this year.
Notification letters will be sent by June, to parents of eligible children.
The government will also enhance the Kindergarten Financial Assistance Scheme (Kifas) and the Centre-based Financial Assistance Scheme for childcare (CFAC) which currently provide subsidies to lower-income families.
The subsidies will be extended to a larger group of families, including those with up to S$3,500 in gross monthly household income.
Separately, some S$100 million will be pumped into schools for Edusave grants.
Meanwhile, a one-off top-up of S$4.7 million will be put into funds of School Advisory Committees and School Management Committees to help needy Singaporeans students.
There will also be more help for those attending special education schools (SPED).
The MOE Financial Assistance Scheme will also be extended to those from lower-income families.
Mr Tharman said with such a move, SPED students from such families will be fully subsidised for their school fees, uniforms and textbooks.
They will also receive a 75 per cent subsidy on their exam fees.
And to keep higher education affordable, Mr Tharman said undergraduate and diploma bursaries will also increase significantly to benefit students from both lower- and middle-income families.
University students from the bottom one-third of households will benefit from an 80 per cent increase in bursaries, from the current S$1,600 a year to S$2,900 a year.
Mr Tharman said the measures will cost an additional $120 million per year.
-CNA/wk
Budget 2011: Growth dividends for all adult S'poreans
SINGAPORE: One of the measures from this year's Budget includes payment of growth dividends.
The Ministry of Finance (MOF) said they will give growth dividends to all adult Singaporeans.
As in the past, the amount each Singaporean will receive will depend on his income and value of his home.
Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam said 80 per cent of Singaporeans will get S$600 to S$800 in Growth Dividends.
"Those with low incomes and who live in a three-room or smaller HDB flat will get a growth dividend of S$800," said Mr Tharman in his Budget speech.
Meanwhile, "those in the middle-income group and who live in HDB flats and low-value private homes will receive a growth dividend of S$600," he added.
Mr Tharman said he will also give S$300 to those who live in expensive homes but do not have high incomes.
National servicemen and full-time national servicemen, including those below 21 years of age, will receive an additional S$100 in growth dividends.
MOF said the growth dividends will benefit about 2.5 million Singaporeans and will cost the government S$1.5 billion this year.
Singaporeans will receive their growth dividends by May 1 this year.
And to assist with rising utility costs, the government will provide an additional Utilities-Save (U-Save) and Service and Conservancy Charges (S&CC) rebates this year.
This is a top up of the U-Save, S&CC and rental rebates as part of the GST Offset Package introduced in 2007.
"One- and two-room households will get an additional S$170, giving them a total of S$360 in U-Save rebates this year," Mr Tharman said .
"This is equivalent to about five months of their utility bills," he added.
Those in three- and four-room flats will get S$320 and S$340, with five-room and executive flats receiving a little less.
Singaporeans will also receive additional S&CC rebate from this year's Budget.
One- to four-bedroom HDB households will get an extra month of rebate, said MOF.
This translates to three months of S&CC rebates for one-to-two room households, two months for three-and-four room households, and at least one month for larger flats with five-rooms and above.
MOF said the rebates will benefit 800,000 households and will cost the government S$200 million.
-CNA/wk
The Ministry of Finance (MOF) said they will give growth dividends to all adult Singaporeans.
As in the past, the amount each Singaporean will receive will depend on his income and value of his home.
Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam said 80 per cent of Singaporeans will get S$600 to S$800 in Growth Dividends.
"Those with low incomes and who live in a three-room or smaller HDB flat will get a growth dividend of S$800," said Mr Tharman in his Budget speech.
Meanwhile, "those in the middle-income group and who live in HDB flats and low-value private homes will receive a growth dividend of S$600," he added.
Mr Tharman said he will also give S$300 to those who live in expensive homes but do not have high incomes.
National servicemen and full-time national servicemen, including those below 21 years of age, will receive an additional S$100 in growth dividends.
MOF said the growth dividends will benefit about 2.5 million Singaporeans and will cost the government S$1.5 billion this year.
Singaporeans will receive their growth dividends by May 1 this year.
And to assist with rising utility costs, the government will provide an additional Utilities-Save (U-Save) and Service and Conservancy Charges (S&CC) rebates this year.
This is a top up of the U-Save, S&CC and rental rebates as part of the GST Offset Package introduced in 2007.
"One- and two-room households will get an additional S$170, giving them a total of S$360 in U-Save rebates this year," Mr Tharman said .
"This is equivalent to about five months of their utility bills," he added.
Those in three- and four-room flats will get S$320 and S$340, with five-room and executive flats receiving a little less.
Singaporeans will also receive additional S&CC rebate from this year's Budget.
One- to four-bedroom HDB households will get an extra month of rebate, said MOF.
This translates to three months of S&CC rebates for one-to-two room households, two months for three-and-four room households, and at least one month for larger flats with five-rooms and above.
MOF said the rebates will benefit 800,000 households and will cost the government S$200 million.
-CNA/wk
Budget 2011: More than S$13b in benefits for S'poreans
SINGAPORE: The Singapore government is giving out more than S$13 billion in benefits to households and businesses - aimed at growing incomes and strengthening society.
Part of this is a S$3.2 billion one-off "Grow and Share" package - announced by Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam when he delivered this year's Budget in Parliament on Friday.
On the back of last year's exceptional economic growth, the Government has also decided to put back into past reserves the S$4 billion drawn out for the Resilience package - introduced to help the country cope with the global financial crisis.
All adult citizens can look forward to Growth Dividends of between S$100 and S$800, depending on their annual income and the value of their homes. NSFs and NSmen also get an additional S$100.
The payout will be given by May 1, benefiting about 2.5 million Singaporeans
There will also be a one-off Special Bonus for those on the Workfare Income Supplement (WIS) Scheme, which pays older low-wage workers who stay employed.
The bonus amounts to 50 per cent more for work done in 2010 and 25 per cent more each year, for work done in 2011 and 2012.
It will be paid out fully in cash, with the first tranche on May 15.
For example, a 55-year-old employee earning S$1,000 a month last year will receive a regular payout of S$2,100 plus S$1,050 for Workfare Special Bonus.
"This is equivalent to getting one month extra pay, on top of the WIS which provides him more than two months' extra pay," said Mr Tharman. Some 400,000 workers stand to benefit from the special bonus.
Self-employed persons who make Medisave contributions will also benefit. They will receive half of their bonus in cash and the other half in their CPF Medisave accounts.
Another S$3.4 billion will go into top-ups for long term social investments to help seniors, needy Singaporeans and to support life-long learning.
Taxpayers will also enjoy a personal income tax rebate of 20 per cent - capped at S$2,000 - for Year of Assessment 2011.
There will also be a more progressive income tax cut. Marginal tax rates will be reduced for the first S$120,000 of chargeable income. This means working Singaporeans will pay less tax - especially if they are middle income earners.
For example, those with chargeable income of S$60,000 will now pay 25 per cent less tax, and save S$650 a year, while those with chargeable income of S$160,000 save a smaller percentage of about 10 per cent.
However, because this group pays higher taxes, they will in fact save about S$1,600.
Those with chargeable income of above S$330,000 will save less than 1 per cent and get a modest S$350.
Mr Tharman said under this more progressive income tax schedule, middle income earners will "enjoy the largest percentage reduction in taxes". The changes will take effect from YA2012 and will cost the government some S$590 million a year.
Other tax changes include the employer CPF contribution rate, which will be raised by 0.5 percentage points to bring the total contribution rate to 36 per cent.
"This is a bonus, but it is not merely incidental to our fiscal policy approach. It is how we share and redistribute the benefits of growth with Singaporeans, while keeping to fiscal discipline. This package of surplus-sharing will also help most of our lower and middle-income households to offset their higher costs of living this year," said Mr Tharman.
The radio and television license fees will also be scrapped.
"I will remove radio and television licence fees permanently...the licence fees are losing their relevance," said Mr Tharman, garnering cheers from the House.
This is effective from January 1 this year and those who have paid the fees will get a refund.
In explaining the move, Mr Tharman said: "The ownership of TVs is no longer limited to the middle and higher income groups. Today, most households including 99 per cent of lower-income households own TVs. Second with increasing media convergence, Singaporeans can now receive broadcast content over the internet and mobile devices which do nor attract licence fees."
In a statement, MediaCorp said as the national broadcaster of Singapore, it "remains committed to produce PSB (Public Service Broadcast) programmes that promote social objectives and national harmony, within the framework of a commercial free-to-air environment. While MediaCorp is required to telecast a fixed number of PSB hours per year across its channels and stations, in reality, the quantum produced exceeds the number of hours mandated by the MDA."
This year's Budget is the last to be delivered before the next General Elections due by February 2012 and in many ways the government has addressed concerns on the ground. For example, the immediate need to help Singaporeans deal with inflation and in the long term, helping to raise the wages of low-income Singaporeans so they can lead a better life.
-CNA/ac
Part of this is a S$3.2 billion one-off "Grow and Share" package - announced by Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam when he delivered this year's Budget in Parliament on Friday.
On the back of last year's exceptional economic growth, the Government has also decided to put back into past reserves the S$4 billion drawn out for the Resilience package - introduced to help the country cope with the global financial crisis.
All adult citizens can look forward to Growth Dividends of between S$100 and S$800, depending on their annual income and the value of their homes. NSFs and NSmen also get an additional S$100.
The payout will be given by May 1, benefiting about 2.5 million Singaporeans
There will also be a one-off Special Bonus for those on the Workfare Income Supplement (WIS) Scheme, which pays older low-wage workers who stay employed.
The bonus amounts to 50 per cent more for work done in 2010 and 25 per cent more each year, for work done in 2011 and 2012.
It will be paid out fully in cash, with the first tranche on May 15.
For example, a 55-year-old employee earning S$1,000 a month last year will receive a regular payout of S$2,100 plus S$1,050 for Workfare Special Bonus.
"This is equivalent to getting one month extra pay, on top of the WIS which provides him more than two months' extra pay," said Mr Tharman. Some 400,000 workers stand to benefit from the special bonus.
Self-employed persons who make Medisave contributions will also benefit. They will receive half of their bonus in cash and the other half in their CPF Medisave accounts.
Another S$3.4 billion will go into top-ups for long term social investments to help seniors, needy Singaporeans and to support life-long learning.
Taxpayers will also enjoy a personal income tax rebate of 20 per cent - capped at S$2,000 - for Year of Assessment 2011.
There will also be a more progressive income tax cut. Marginal tax rates will be reduced for the first S$120,000 of chargeable income. This means working Singaporeans will pay less tax - especially if they are middle income earners.
For example, those with chargeable income of S$60,000 will now pay 25 per cent less tax, and save S$650 a year, while those with chargeable income of S$160,000 save a smaller percentage of about 10 per cent.
However, because this group pays higher taxes, they will in fact save about S$1,600.
Those with chargeable income of above S$330,000 will save less than 1 per cent and get a modest S$350.
Mr Tharman said under this more progressive income tax schedule, middle income earners will "enjoy the largest percentage reduction in taxes". The changes will take effect from YA2012 and will cost the government some S$590 million a year.
Other tax changes include the employer CPF contribution rate, which will be raised by 0.5 percentage points to bring the total contribution rate to 36 per cent.
"This is a bonus, but it is not merely incidental to our fiscal policy approach. It is how we share and redistribute the benefits of growth with Singaporeans, while keeping to fiscal discipline. This package of surplus-sharing will also help most of our lower and middle-income households to offset their higher costs of living this year," said Mr Tharman.
The radio and television license fees will also be scrapped.
"I will remove radio and television licence fees permanently...the licence fees are losing their relevance," said Mr Tharman, garnering cheers from the House.
This is effective from January 1 this year and those who have paid the fees will get a refund.
In explaining the move, Mr Tharman said: "The ownership of TVs is no longer limited to the middle and higher income groups. Today, most households including 99 per cent of lower-income households own TVs. Second with increasing media convergence, Singaporeans can now receive broadcast content over the internet and mobile devices which do nor attract licence fees."
In a statement, MediaCorp said as the national broadcaster of Singapore, it "remains committed to produce PSB (Public Service Broadcast) programmes that promote social objectives and national harmony, within the framework of a commercial free-to-air environment. While MediaCorp is required to telecast a fixed number of PSB hours per year across its channels and stations, in reality, the quantum produced exceeds the number of hours mandated by the MDA."
This year's Budget is the last to be delivered before the next General Elections due by February 2012 and in many ways the government has addressed concerns on the ground. For example, the immediate need to help Singaporeans deal with inflation and in the long term, helping to raise the wages of low-income Singaporeans so they can lead a better life.
-CNA/ac
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
'Eighth wonder of the world' found under a New Zealand lake
..Wellington, Feb 14 (DPA) New Zealand's first tourist attraction, dubbed the 'eighth wonder of the world' by international travellers in the late 19th century, has been rediscovered 125 years after it was buried by one of the biggest-ever volcanic eruptions.
New Zealand and US scientists said they found the Pink and White Terraces, 60 metres below Lake Rotomahana, 30 km from Rotorua in the heart of the North Island's geothermal region.
The terraces, described at the time as a delicately-coloured fan-like staircase of rock covered with shades of pink and white silica rising like a giant wedding cake from the shores of the lake, disappeared when nearby Mount Tarawera blew up June 10, 1886.
The five-hour eruption split the 1,111-metre-high mountain in two, sending ash and lava over thousands of square kilometres of countryside, completely burying three villages and killing an estimated 153 people. Hundreds fled for their lives as smoke rose 10 km into the air.
Lake Rotomahana ('warm lake' in the Maori tongue) was emptied by the blast, only to be enlarged many times when it refilled, with hot springs bubbling up from up its shoreline and steam issuing from its banks, but with no sign of the largest silica terraces in the world.
Scientists from the state GNS Science organisation and America's Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution on Cape Cod, Massachusetts, said they found the part of the terraces while mapping the floor of the eight-square kilometre lake and investigating its geothermal system.
Sonar images taken by two autonomous underwater vehicles (AUVs) showed a pink-coloured, crescent-shaped, grimy staircase rising 1-2 metres from the lake floor for about 70 metres.
Project leader Cornel de Ronde, of GNS Science, said: 'The first sonar image gave a hint of a terraced structure so we scanned the area twice more and we are now 95 per cent certain we are seeing the bottom two tiers of the Pink Terraces.'
He said there was no sign of the larger White Terraces, which were either destroyed during the eruption, or are still concealed under thick sediment that the side-scan sonar signal could not penetrate.
'This discovery puts to rest more than a century of speculation as to whether any part of the Pink and White Terraces survived the eruption,' de Ronde said. 'Something that's meant to be gone and that nobody's seen in 125 years. Highlights in a science career don't come any better than this.'
Historian Margaret McClure told the New Zealand Herald that the terraces and their cascading hot pools were the spark for tourism in the country, which now gets 2.5 million foreign visitors a year.
'Back then it was the tourism high point,' she said, attracting tourists from all over the world. 'People said it was like fairyland, or Aladdin's Cave.'
News of the find stunned local Maoris, whose ancestors lived near the terraces and died in the eruption.
Anaru Rangiheuea, an elder of Te Arawa tribe, told Wellington's Dominion Post newspaper: 'For me, it brings back a few tears and a few feelings of my people who were all buried and killed in the aftermath of that eruption.'
De Ronde said the investigation had revealed a 'very, very big' geothermal system under the lake floor, giving rise to speculation that it could be developed for power generation like a nearby field at Wairakei.
But to the Maori people, areas where their ancestors died are 'tapu' (taboo) and should not be disturbed. 'Before we start moving into any economic consideration, we need to get the spiritual aspect of this properly addressed,' said Toby Curtis, chairman of Te Arawa Lakes Trust, which owns the lake floor under an agreement with the government.
New Zealand and US scientists said they found the Pink and White Terraces, 60 metres below Lake Rotomahana, 30 km from Rotorua in the heart of the North Island's geothermal region.
The terraces, described at the time as a delicately-coloured fan-like staircase of rock covered with shades of pink and white silica rising like a giant wedding cake from the shores of the lake, disappeared when nearby Mount Tarawera blew up June 10, 1886.
The five-hour eruption split the 1,111-metre-high mountain in two, sending ash and lava over thousands of square kilometres of countryside, completely burying three villages and killing an estimated 153 people. Hundreds fled for their lives as smoke rose 10 km into the air.
Lake Rotomahana ('warm lake' in the Maori tongue) was emptied by the blast, only to be enlarged many times when it refilled, with hot springs bubbling up from up its shoreline and steam issuing from its banks, but with no sign of the largest silica terraces in the world.
Scientists from the state GNS Science organisation and America's Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution on Cape Cod, Massachusetts, said they found the part of the terraces while mapping the floor of the eight-square kilometre lake and investigating its geothermal system.
Sonar images taken by two autonomous underwater vehicles (AUVs) showed a pink-coloured, crescent-shaped, grimy staircase rising 1-2 metres from the lake floor for about 70 metres.
Project leader Cornel de Ronde, of GNS Science, said: 'The first sonar image gave a hint of a terraced structure so we scanned the area twice more and we are now 95 per cent certain we are seeing the bottom two tiers of the Pink Terraces.'
He said there was no sign of the larger White Terraces, which were either destroyed during the eruption, or are still concealed under thick sediment that the side-scan sonar signal could not penetrate.
'This discovery puts to rest more than a century of speculation as to whether any part of the Pink and White Terraces survived the eruption,' de Ronde said. 'Something that's meant to be gone and that nobody's seen in 125 years. Highlights in a science career don't come any better than this.'
Historian Margaret McClure told the New Zealand Herald that the terraces and their cascading hot pools were the spark for tourism in the country, which now gets 2.5 million foreign visitors a year.
'Back then it was the tourism high point,' she said, attracting tourists from all over the world. 'People said it was like fairyland, or Aladdin's Cave.'
News of the find stunned local Maoris, whose ancestors lived near the terraces and died in the eruption.
Anaru Rangiheuea, an elder of Te Arawa tribe, told Wellington's Dominion Post newspaper: 'For me, it brings back a few tears and a few feelings of my people who were all buried and killed in the aftermath of that eruption.'
De Ronde said the investigation had revealed a 'very, very big' geothermal system under the lake floor, giving rise to speculation that it could be developed for power generation like a nearby field at Wairakei.
But to the Maori people, areas where their ancestors died are 'tapu' (taboo) and should not be disturbed. 'Before we start moving into any economic consideration, we need to get the spiritual aspect of this properly addressed,' said Toby Curtis, chairman of Te Arawa Lakes Trust, which owns the lake floor under an agreement with the government.
Wednesday, February 09, 2011
Junk food diet linked to lower IQ - study
PARIS (AFP) - – Toddlers who have a diet high in processed foods may have a slightly lower IQ in later life, according to a British study described as the biggest research of its kind.
The conclusion, published on Monday, comes from a long-term investigation into 14,000 people born in western England in 1991 and 1992 whose health and well-being were monitored at the ages of three, four, seven and eight and a half.
Parents of the children were asked to fill out questionnaires that, among other things, detailed the kind of food and drink their children consumed.
Three dietary patterns emerged: one was high in processed fats and sugar; then there was a "traditional" diet high in meat and vegetables; and finally a "health-conscious" diet with lots of salad, fruit and vegetables, pasta and rice.
When the children were eight and a half, their IQ was measured using a standard tool called the Wechsler Intelligence Scale.
Of the 4,000 children for which there were complete data, there was a significant difference in IQ among those who had had the "processed" as opposed to the "health-conscious" diets in early childhood.
The 20 percent of children who ate the most processed food had an average IQ of 101 points, compared with 106 for the 20 percent of children who ate the most "health-conscious" food.
"It's a very small difference, it's not a vast difference," said one of the authors, Pauline Emmett of the School of Social and Community Medicine at the University of Bristol.
"But it does make them less able to cope with education, less able to cope with some of the things in life."
The association between IQ and nutrition is a strongly debated issue because it can be skewed by many factors, including economic and social background.
A middle-class family, for instance, may arguably be more keen (or more financially able) to put a healthier meal on the table, or be pushier about stimulating their child, compared to a poorer household.
Emmett said the team took special care to filter out such confounders.
"We have controlled for maternal education, for maternal social class, age, whether they live in council housing, life events, anything going wrong, the home environment, with books and use of television and things like that," she said.
The size of the study, too, was unprecedented.
"It's a huge sample, it's much much bigger than anything anyone else has done," she said in an interview with AFP.
Emmett said further work was needed to see whether this apparent impact on IQ persisted as the children got older.
Asked why junk food had such an effect, she suggested a diet that was preponderantly processed could lack vital vitamins and elements for cerebral development at a key stage in early childhood.
"A junk food diet is not conducive to good brain development," she said.
The paper appears in the peer-reviewed Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, published by the British Medical Association (BMA).
The conclusion, published on Monday, comes from a long-term investigation into 14,000 people born in western England in 1991 and 1992 whose health and well-being were monitored at the ages of three, four, seven and eight and a half.
Parents of the children were asked to fill out questionnaires that, among other things, detailed the kind of food and drink their children consumed.
Three dietary patterns emerged: one was high in processed fats and sugar; then there was a "traditional" diet high in meat and vegetables; and finally a "health-conscious" diet with lots of salad, fruit and vegetables, pasta and rice.
When the children were eight and a half, their IQ was measured using a standard tool called the Wechsler Intelligence Scale.
Of the 4,000 children for which there were complete data, there was a significant difference in IQ among those who had had the "processed" as opposed to the "health-conscious" diets in early childhood.
The 20 percent of children who ate the most processed food had an average IQ of 101 points, compared with 106 for the 20 percent of children who ate the most "health-conscious" food.
"It's a very small difference, it's not a vast difference," said one of the authors, Pauline Emmett of the School of Social and Community Medicine at the University of Bristol.
"But it does make them less able to cope with education, less able to cope with some of the things in life."
The association between IQ and nutrition is a strongly debated issue because it can be skewed by many factors, including economic and social background.
A middle-class family, for instance, may arguably be more keen (or more financially able) to put a healthier meal on the table, or be pushier about stimulating their child, compared to a poorer household.
Emmett said the team took special care to filter out such confounders.
"We have controlled for maternal education, for maternal social class, age, whether they live in council housing, life events, anything going wrong, the home environment, with books and use of television and things like that," she said.
The size of the study, too, was unprecedented.
"It's a huge sample, it's much much bigger than anything anyone else has done," she said in an interview with AFP.
Emmett said further work was needed to see whether this apparent impact on IQ persisted as the children got older.
Asked why junk food had such an effect, she suggested a diet that was preponderantly processed could lack vital vitamins and elements for cerebral development at a key stage in early childhood.
"A junk food diet is not conducive to good brain development," she said.
The paper appears in the peer-reviewed Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, published by the British Medical Association (BMA).
Sunday, January 30, 2011
天亮之后 偷情的女人比男人更消极
一夜情 男女都在怎么想？
一项调查显示，一夜情的结果对大多数男人而言就像是天堂，而对大多数女人而言则很消极。这项调查还进一步研究了偶然性行为的细微差别和其在男女关系中的不稳定性。
这项调查的发现指出，女人吸引男人并不是为了使对方成为自己的终生伴侣，而因为她们被一起过夜这一提议所打动。所以说，在这个问题她们过去被人误解了。
研究者指出，在一夜情中男人往往会降低他们选择的标准。所以这时男人对女人的赞美和奉承只不过是假象而已。
达拉谟大学的心理学家安坎贝尔说，在这样的景遇中，女人通常会说诸如此类的话，如“我感觉自己受到了极大的赞美，并十分高兴他被我所吸引。被人如此需要的确令人很愉快”.但实际上，大多数女性并未意识到在一夜情中男人很大程度上降低了自己的选择标准。她还指出，男人不应该这样奉承女人，因为他只想和她上一次床。
真实的感情和数据
许多对于偶然性行为的研究都是建立在虚构的故事或参与者自己对一夜情的幻想上。而新的研究则建立在一夜情当事人的自述上。
在《人性》月刊上，坎贝尔说女性并不适合多性伴的性关系。在多性伴的关系中，女性要承受的更多，而男性则处于双赢的局面。比方说，对于女性而言一个即将出生的婴儿将会是一个很大的责任，而男人则可以逃脱这个责任。
托德谢克福表示，对于女性来说一夜情的潜在风险更大，因此并不奇怪研究结果指出一夜情并不那么激动人心反而有点令人沮丧。托德-谢克福是来自佛罗里达大西洋大学的进化心理学学者，他并没有参加本次研究。但是谢克福又表示，从进化学的角度来看多性伴的关系又为女性提供了某种自然优势。
这种自然优势可以解释为什么很多女性在一夜情后觉得很恶心，但是仍旧不悔改。月经周期峰值期间的生化反应可能会使女性产生性冲动，而多性伴的性关系则能让女性为后代挑选最优质的基因。
天亮之后
坎贝尔对3300人进行了调查，其中大多数人的年龄在17到40之间。在异性恋的被调查者中半数以上承认发生过一夜情，并且一夜情的几率在男女之间基本是均等的。
总体上，在一夜情之后女人的感觉比男人更消极，而80%的男性总体上觉得很愉悦。只有54%的女性觉得事后很愉悦。
绝大多数女性在一夜情后都声称感觉自己被利用了，并有诸如“自己很贱”、“很后怕”、“我觉得很抱歉。这样的行为让自己很掉价并且让自己看起来很随便。”之类的想法。
和一般的观点相反，女人并不把随意的性行为看作是长期交往的开始。坎贝尔对《生活科学》说，女人和男人发生一夜情的时候并不是因为女人想让这个男人和她结婚，而是她想让男人明白她通常并不是这样的，今晚的一夜情是她特别为这个男人所做的。
如果对方很有吸引力，男人在一夜情之后会觉得很有成就感，而且男人比女人更能从一夜情中获得性满足。对于一夜情，男人的典型的积极评论包括，极乐、兴奋和激情并认为一夜情有助于释放压力。而女人对一夜情的消极评论则主要是空虚和寂寞。
女人为何尝试一夜情？
即便女性在一夜情之后觉得很糟，但是她们还是会三番五次地发生一夜情。这是为什么？
她们这么做可能在是为自己的后代挑选优质的基因。因此，女人如果不能赢得和具有优质基因，（比如能抵抗疾病或具有某种天赋的基因）的男人的长期关系的话，她的想法会转变为“为什么不和他做一次爱？”
坎贝尔说，如果你遇到的是一个像布拉德-皮特那样既有钱又风流潇洒的男人话，你基本上不可能让他承诺和你共度余生；但是让他在某个周三下午和你在酒店房间发生半个小时关系的可能性却很大。
一项调查显示，一夜情的结果对大多数男人而言就像是天堂，而对大多数女人而言则很消极。这项调查还进一步研究了偶然性行为的细微差别和其在男女关系中的不稳定性。
这项调查的发现指出，女人吸引男人并不是为了使对方成为自己的终生伴侣，而因为她们被一起过夜这一提议所打动。所以说，在这个问题她们过去被人误解了。
研究者指出，在一夜情中男人往往会降低他们选择的标准。所以这时男人对女人的赞美和奉承只不过是假象而已。
达拉谟大学的心理学家安坎贝尔说，在这样的景遇中，女人通常会说诸如此类的话，如“我感觉自己受到了极大的赞美，并十分高兴他被我所吸引。被人如此需要的确令人很愉快”.但实际上，大多数女性并未意识到在一夜情中男人很大程度上降低了自己的选择标准。她还指出，男人不应该这样奉承女人，因为他只想和她上一次床。
真实的感情和数据
许多对于偶然性行为的研究都是建立在虚构的故事或参与者自己对一夜情的幻想上。而新的研究则建立在一夜情当事人的自述上。
在《人性》月刊上，坎贝尔说女性并不适合多性伴的性关系。在多性伴的关系中，女性要承受的更多，而男性则处于双赢的局面。比方说，对于女性而言一个即将出生的婴儿将会是一个很大的责任，而男人则可以逃脱这个责任。
托德谢克福表示，对于女性来说一夜情的潜在风险更大，因此并不奇怪研究结果指出一夜情并不那么激动人心反而有点令人沮丧。托德-谢克福是来自佛罗里达大西洋大学的进化心理学学者，他并没有参加本次研究。但是谢克福又表示，从进化学的角度来看多性伴的关系又为女性提供了某种自然优势。
这种自然优势可以解释为什么很多女性在一夜情后觉得很恶心，但是仍旧不悔改。月经周期峰值期间的生化反应可能会使女性产生性冲动，而多性伴的性关系则能让女性为后代挑选最优质的基因。
天亮之后
坎贝尔对3300人进行了调查，其中大多数人的年龄在17到40之间。在异性恋的被调查者中半数以上承认发生过一夜情，并且一夜情的几率在男女之间基本是均等的。
总体上，在一夜情之后女人的感觉比男人更消极，而80%的男性总体上觉得很愉悦。只有54%的女性觉得事后很愉悦。
绝大多数女性在一夜情后都声称感觉自己被利用了，并有诸如“自己很贱”、“很后怕”、“我觉得很抱歉。这样的行为让自己很掉价并且让自己看起来很随便。”之类的想法。
和一般的观点相反，女人并不把随意的性行为看作是长期交往的开始。坎贝尔对《生活科学》说，女人和男人发生一夜情的时候并不是因为女人想让这个男人和她结婚，而是她想让男人明白她通常并不是这样的，今晚的一夜情是她特别为这个男人所做的。
如果对方很有吸引力，男人在一夜情之后会觉得很有成就感，而且男人比女人更能从一夜情中获得性满足。对于一夜情，男人的典型的积极评论包括，极乐、兴奋和激情并认为一夜情有助于释放压力。而女人对一夜情的消极评论则主要是空虚和寂寞。
女人为何尝试一夜情？
即便女性在一夜情之后觉得很糟，但是她们还是会三番五次地发生一夜情。这是为什么？
她们这么做可能在是为自己的后代挑选优质的基因。因此，女人如果不能赢得和具有优质基因，（比如能抵抗疾病或具有某种天赋的基因）的男人的长期关系的话，她的想法会转变为“为什么不和他做一次爱？”
坎贝尔说，如果你遇到的是一个像布拉德-皮特那样既有钱又风流潇洒的男人话，你基本上不可能让他承诺和你共度余生；但是让他在某个周三下午和你在酒店房间发生半个小时关系的可能性却很大。
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