Saturday, September 17, 2011

juz somethin' out of e blue...

Men ( not all, some or even just a minority percentage), i noticed, become more attractive when they age. For a man to be classified under 'Alpha', it does take years of experience in the working society. But, not all men will be of that stage for their lives. No matter how one practices to be an Alpha male, it will not be as natural as the true-blue Alphas; those that had attained a high level of confidence, charisma, maturity level through the years, which you rarely could find in the younger ones.

I was told by a friend yesterday, that he's able to differentiate women for being single or married just by looking how we walk. I'm so intrigued by that, seriously!! But he's got no idea how to explain the difference... I'm into body language, and this is the very first time i heard about the way women walk... i shall look into this further...

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

BD, BD, BD!!!

3rd lesson of bd today... i didn't even wait for my e1 to complete b4 starting bd.. *evil laughter*.. it's a fun class, i've been smiling and laughing in the class since e 1st lesson. LOL~ well, samba is being postponed again... not many are that interested for lvl. 2... bless me with lvl 2 class quick!!!! :P

oh, and drama queen, Clarice, asked me to join her bolly fusion class... reason? cause i'm drama myself... -.-""" *faints* i told her, "i got this drama virus from u, drama queen... it's only 1% of your drama~~~~" ROFL!!

biz mgmt classes will be starting this week...will be able to see the girls soon!!! ^_^

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Samba Samba

3rd class of samba today... it's so much fun!! prolly due to such a dramatic instructor... hahah!! next week will be e last lesson of level 1, am going up to level 2 the week after. *grins*

will be so busy wth work, sch and current dance class with BDD and new class with Groove School.. superbly happy about it. at least, i'm able to get things off my mind when i'm busy or doing some stuff i'm so in love with. =) i've been postponing my dance classes for 10 years... reminded by my instructor she started learning @ Mandarin Hotel from our director... 10 LONG YEARS!! can't imagine it's that fast!!! and NO WAY i'm gonna let my dance wait for me again!!!

Belly dance, you're my next target.. after my groupon with Groove Sch *winks*
Anyway, it's still @ BDD studio, same as my current samba class. ^_^

Tuesday, June 07, 2011

Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning

The new captain jumped from the deck, fully dressed, and sprinted through the water. A former lifeguard, he kept his eyes on his victim as he headed straight for the couple swimming between their anchored sportfisher and the beach. “I think he thinks you’re drowning,” the husband said to his wife. They had been splashing each other and she had screamed but now they were just standing, neck-deep on the sand bar. “We’re fine, what is he doing?” she asked, a little annoyed. “We’re fine!” the husband yelled, waving him off, but his captain kept swimming hard. ”Move!” he barked as he sprinted between the stunned owners. Directly behind them, not ten feet away, their nine-year-old daughter was drowning. Safely above the surface in the arms of the captain, she burst into tears, “Daddy!”

How did this captain know – from fifty feet away – what the father couldn’t recognize from just ten? Drowning is not the violent, splashing, call for help that most people expect. The captain was trained to recognize drowning by experts and years of experience. The father, on the other hand, had learned what drowning looks like by watching television. If you spend time on or near the water (hint: that’s all of us) then you should make sure that you and your crew knows what to look for whenever people enter the water. Until she cried a tearful, “Daddy,” she hadn’t made a sound. As a former Coast Guard rescue swimmer, I wasn’t surprised at all by this story. Drowning is almost always a deceptively quiet event. The waving, splashing, and yelling that dramatic conditioning (television) prepares us to look for, is rarely seen in real life.

The Instinctive Drowning Response – so named by Francesco A. Pia, Ph.D., is what people do to avoid actual or perceived suffocation in the water. And it does not look like most people expect. There is very little splashing, no waving, and no yelling or calls for help of any kind. To get an idea of just how quiet and undramatic from the surface drowning can be, consider this: It is the number two cause of accidental death in children, age 15 and under (just behind vehicle accidents) – of the approximately 750 children who will drown next year, about 375 of them will do so within 25 yards of a parent or other adult. In ten percent of those drownings, the adult will actually watch them do it, having no idea it is happening (source: CDC). Drowning does not look like drowning – Dr. Pia, in an article in the Coast Guard’s On Scene Magazine, described the instinctive drowning response like this:

1.Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled, before speech occurs.

2.Drowning people’s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning people’s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.

3.Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the water’s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water, permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.

4.Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.

5.From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response people’s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs.

This doesn’t mean that a person that is yelling for help and thrashing isn’t in real trouble – they are experiencing aquatic distress. Not always present before the instinctive drowning response, aquatic distress doesn’t last long – but unlike true drowning, these victims can still assist in their own rescue. They can grab lifelines, throw rings, etc.

Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:
- Head low in the water, mouth at water level
- Head tilted back with mouth open
- Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus
- Eyes closed
- Hair over forehead or eyes
- Not using legs – Vertical
- Hyperventilating or gasping
- Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway
- Trying to roll over on the back
- Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder.

So if a crew member falls overboard and everything looks OK – don’t be too sure. Sometimes the most common indication that someone is drowning is that they don’t look like they’re drowning. They may just look like they are treading water and looking up at the deck. One way to be sure? Ask them, “Are you alright?” If they can answer at all – they probably are. If they return a blank stare, you may have less than 30 seconds to get to them. And parents – children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.

Monday, May 23, 2011

gastric pain is acting up again... and the frequency interval is pretty close compared to previously.. dont wanna go back SGH cause it's so far from my place even though they've got e best gastroenterology dept.. or should i? on the other hand, i'm very sure that SGH's staff will schedule a scope for me immediately, but TTSH will rely on CT scan AGAIN!!! oh well, SGH then, in this case...i had bad experience with TTSH anyway...

Sunday, May 08, 2011

PAP returns to power with reduced mandate

As expected, the PAP won the 2011 general election though with a reduced mandate.

Though the PAP swept 81 out of 87 seats, its share of the popular vote slipped to 60.14 percent from 66.6 percent at the last election in 2006, its worst result since independence.

It also lost a GRC, and along with it 2 ministers and a potential Speaker of Parliament, for the first time since the system was introduced in 1988.

The Workers’ Party emerges as the strongest opposition party in Singapore, winning Aljunied GRC by a comfortable margin and increasing its percentage of votes in Hougang SMC.

The three NCMP seats are likely to go to Ms Lina Chiam (SPP), Mr Yee Jenn Jong (WP) and one candidate from WP’s losing team in East Coast GRC.

The biggest loser appears to be the Singapore People’s Party which lost all its contested seats, including Potong Pasir SMC and Bishan-Toa Payoh GRC.

The Singapore Democratic Party saw its percentage of votes improve, but was unable to win Holland-Bukit Timah GRC with its ‘A’ team polling a respectable 39.9 percent of the votes.

In spite fielding the largest slate of candidates among opposition parties, the National Solidarity Party lost all of them including Tampines GRC which was helmed by the unpopular PAP Housing Minister Mah Bow Tan.

The other parties all performed dismally including the newly formed Reform Party which was plagued by bitter in-fighting a few weeks before the election.

Despite optimism among netizens that a political tsunami may arrived, the PAP continues to maintain a stranglehold on power, retaining its two-third majority which will enable it to pass any bills and laws as and when it wishes.

The results of the election show that parties do have an impact on voters’ choices. The Workers’ Party managed to win at least 40 percent of the votes in all the seats it contested even with weak teams as compared to the other opposition parties.

As predicted earlier, the impact of the new media is limited though it may rise in future elections. Though the PAP has won the election, it has clearly weakened and the loss of a GRC may pave the way for more changes to come in Singapore’s new political landscape.