要玩火，就要能忍受被火燒的感覺。。。

這幾個星期怎麼睡都好像不足。。。發炎的雙眼，雖然是好了許多可也還沒完全康復。說實話，也未免太久了吧！

那時想不通的事，總算想出了結論。超感謝我那幾位哥哥，十年的交情，愛死你們！！哈哈！！

我不會逃避，而會面對自己。無論我再喜歡一個人，我自己明白我對那個人的感覺只是到那兒為止，不會超出。也能說互相為利益而存在？也許吧。反正只要是他能得到他要的，我會得到我想要的，就行了。。。只要不會傷到別人。。。玩火嘛，刺激的感覺是爽，不過如果不小心就會傷到自己和周邊的人。。傷到自己我是無所謂，覺得自己好像麻木了。不過，是時候放的，我還是會放。我是不會再留下任何人，是會累的。。。沒事幹嘛把自己搞得累死啊？有一次的經過已經是足夠了，何必再跟自己過不去呀。

晚安咯！

九天玄女寶誥

九天玄女救世真經

淨水讚


先天真水。淨洗靈臺。楊枝一滴洗塵埃。凡境寂蓬萊。滌穢消災。香林法界開。

皈命蕩魔解穢大天尊　　 三稱

淨香讚

香焚寶鼎。氣達先天。威光炬赫接雲煙。降 鑒此心虔。展誦靈篇。擁護仗雷鞭。

皈命香林說法大天尊　　 三稱

太上起經讚

祥雲初起。法界氤氳。羅天海島異香騰。到處覆慈雲。達信通誠。萬聖盡遙臨。達信通誠。萬聖

盡遙臨。皈命 大聖香雲浮蓋大天尊　　　三稱

淨口咒

人言從口出。出納必慬防。懾心勿妄吐。清心誦經章。急急如律令。

淨心咒

人心本善良。雜念必提防。虔誠無雜念。仙佛降經堂。急急如律令。

淨身咒

身在紅塵穢氣薰。但須沐浴對高真。身淨更衣無塵染。聖佛仙真即降臨。急急如律令。

九天玄女寶誥 　 　　　　　　　志心皈命禮

天遊地遊。猛烈諸侯。上念北極。下臨九洲。身穿金甲。手執戈矛。掛于金髻。眼似銅精。逢妖

斬妖。逢鬼截頭。上帝敕令。不得停留。 娘奉九道母元尊 急急如律令。　　 三稱

開經偈

九天九天。玄是真仙。頭戴金盔。腳踏火輪。身騎白鶴在雲間。手執寶劍斬妖精。臨凡濟度救良

民。何神不伏。何鬼不驚。親身下降。救濟萬民。大悲大願。大聖大慈。仙宮靈洞。顯凡救道。

玄女仙娘。興儒度世大慈尊。 三稱

九天玄女救世真經本章

九天清境。巍峨仙宮。仁慈博愛。掀開天門。憐憫蒼生。告業沉淪。混沌初開。大地朦朧。群靈

混雜。人獸未分。仁慈佈法雨。萬物始初生。始奠陰與陽。制度定乾坤。天皇地皇人皇氏。茹毛

飲血。多生疾病命不長。教之取火熟食。免患瘧疾或夭亡。奈何兇神惡煞常下降。擾民不安動干

戈。即煉金磚填北缺。堵阻兇神降九重。怎奈何。人心多險惡。爭權財勢亂紛紛。奸梟橫行施強

暴。善良無辜慘遭殃。憐憫蒼生遭劫難。聚集群真在九天。同發慈悲救蒼生。群真同發救世心。

駕起祥雲察大千。處處煙障沖霄漢。眾生造業重如山。倫理道德全不顧。爭利負義且忘恩。喪良

心不忠不孝。致惹災疾禍纏綿。但須回頭求懺悔。焚香懺悔禱蒼天。炎黃世冑德為榮。六慾所迷

墮沉淪。固有道德須重振。道日光輝照大同。吾為救世降紅塵。手執寶劍斬妖邪。忠良義士逢厄

難。吾駕祥雲護其身。仁君良將遇災厄。吾保厄難不臨身。亂臣賊子吾不保。難逃天譴禍相侵。

為人子當孝雙親。不孝父母罪不輕。祖傳父母方傳己。未來子孫照樣行。養育之恩深似海。忤逆

之罪大如天。親病醫藥必自煎。亦須嘗過獻親前。不宜解衣勿離食。時時刻刻侍身邊。若要未來

子能孝。汝當先孝奉親前。不孝之人須懺悔。不虧為人在世間。勿謂善惡無報應。遲早有期到身

邊。勸眾生。惜五穀。穀乃先天母之乳。胡為拋散罪不輕。須知五穀養命寶。一日三餐不能離。

任汝金丹成仙佛。不以此寶丹不成。一生惟此不可少。一朝無糧子不親。拋散猶如不孝子。惜穀

即如孝雙親。古今血脈憑此養。否然那得生人身。不惜五穀蒼天怒。定缺衣食受飢貧。勸眾。生

敬惜字。倉頡孔儒功恩澤。乃如日月萬世功。五教經典字為成。敬惜聖字可為人。無知愚夫踐字

跡。分亳不敬昧良心。無讀愚人尚且可。最惡儒門讀書人。踐踏書字逆天地。逆天逆地罪難容。

君親師恩汝不畏。枉生塵世讀書人。見吾真經即速改。可免天堪聖賢嗔。從今惜字根本固。上天

護佑汝名成。勸眾生。須保身。萬惡淫首宜先戒。乃可借假來脩真。且看古今狂淫輩。性命江山

概滅亡。紂王寵幸妲妃女。諸侯會上滅成湯。幽王吳王亦如此。董卓呂布因嬋亡。貪淫敗節把命

傷。聞我真經須懺悔。頭頭禁戒姓名香。一靈真性先天物。體是動來靜是靈。悟者栽培及涵養。

成仙成佛及成真。煉就真靈朝金闕。職司護國與佑民。迷人痴痴竟不悟。酒色財氣當寶珍。六慾

七情迷真性。忘卻先天一點靈。吾今指點靈山路。乃在經中仔細尋。至心皈命禮

大悲大願大聖大慈。九天玄女仁慈救世賜福赦罪大慈尊玄女救世著真經。仁慈護國濟良民。忠臣

孝子祈叩請。即駕祥雲降壇庭。遇難避難。迪吉呈祥。孝子誦此經。父母增遐齡。家宅誦此經。

合家保安寧。行人誦此經。途路保安平。舟船佩此經。波浪即刻平。書生看此經。虎榜定標名。

商人誦此經。利路定亨通。婦女誦此經。必獲產麒麟。若為過世父母誦此經。九玄七祖盡超昇。

但須身行心慕。切勿心違不遵。如有妄行詆毀。試吾寶劍斷無情。吾著真經為救世。廣度閻浮世

上人。但願蒼生心早悟。隨吾玄女復先天。志心皈命禮

大悲大願大聖大慈。無極無上九天玄女救苦救難大慈尊

道 德 天 尊 讚 曰

九天玄女功德重。歷劫救世降九重。除奸佞。保仁君。亂臣逆子遭橫禍。死到陰司禁囚 籠。嗟嘆

群黎輩。負義忘恩背聖賢。迷於酒色若狂顛。聽罷真經須懺悔。孝敬雙親崇聖賢。莫貪酒。莫貪

財。忍氣時常記在懷。倘有貪嗔痴愛慾。任汝懺悔亦徒然。執迷不悟甘造孽。難逃疾病禍纏綿。

但能誦經存懺悔。自然清吉福綿綿。

關 聖 帝 君 讚 曰

真經救世本乎仁。普度群倫出迷津。安邦定國護仁君。民安物阜享昇平。寶劍光芒除奸佞。忤逆

難逃禍相侵。但能誦經存懺悔。上天不加悔罪人。匡扶正義宏天道。德配乾坤感天心。歷劫。免

淪凡俗再下塵。會同聖佛顯仙鄉。點化靈泉救萬民。可療瘧疾奇妙病。濟世功恩海樣深。代天宣

化闢法門。中庸大道復中興。四維八德盼宇內。澆漓頹風自消沉。救世真經佈天下。道日光輝照

萬民。

人天教主讚曰

先天大道德無量。廣佈十方放光芒。歷劫救世度迷津。慈悲與佛闢慈航。德澤配天功彪炳。億萬

千秋顯仙鄉。鎮守乾埤施法雨。蒼黎感戴沐恩光。吾今指醒諸眾生。功恩浩大不宜忘。方方闡教

化愚頑。化迷醒悟振倫常。處處開堂播菩提。兆民康泰國運昌。恭誦真經皈依佛。同赴慈航往西

方。

文 宣 聖 王 讚 曰

玄女仙娘著真經。衛國濟良民。功德配天地。救世度迷津。歷經億萬劫。維持道統張四維。儒宗

真傳。八德倫常。匡正人心。不偏不易達康莊。經聲朗誦驚神鬼。消災解厄錫禎祥。

梓 君 讚 曰

真經功德無量。群真普穹蒼。一切妖魔拱首。諸般鬼祟潛藏。萬道祥光普照。千層惡孽皆空。經

聲諷誦。民康物阜。國運隆昌。群黎赤子遵經句。普天之下呈瑞祥。救世真經功德億。殷勤諷誦

度迷津。

收經偈

我能找回失去的感覺嗎？

這陣子發生了一些事，真的讓我有點累。。。原想把舊的稱號所記載的回憶刪除，可也有愉快的，所以有些舍不得。。。只好把稱號給改了。

曾經被說言語和行動不一，仿徨了也迷失了，和哥聊一會兒。雖然談不出一個明確的答案，但至少有哥陪聊就沒那麽郁悶。

哥說時間能說明一切，我相信。可是說明了能怎麼樣。。。我能接受事實嗎？ 或者會因為往事所留下的陰影而逃避？說真的，現在的我的確傷痕蕾蕾，不想找也找不到失去的感覺，害怕會再一次摔死在谷底。

也說了線放長些，最終會找到答案。可是真要是剪斷了線就可能再也找不回了，我會舍得嗎？

人為何有七情六欲？要是沒有，就不會被傷了。

Kate Perry - Part of Me

Days like this,
I want to drive away
Pack my bags
And watch your shadow fade

You chewed me up
And spit me out
Like I was poison in your mouth

You took my light
You drained me down
But that was then
And this is now

Now look at me,

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

I just wanna throw my phone away
Find out who is really there for me

You ripped me off,
Your love was cheap
Was always tearing at the seams,
I fell deep, you let me down,
But that was then and this is now

Now look at me,

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsfreak.com/k/katy+perry/part+of+me_20899440.html ]
Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul.

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no!

Now look at me I'm sparkling,
A firework, a dancin' flame
You won't ever put me out again
I'm glowin', oh woah,

So you can keep the diamond ring
It don't mean nothing anyway,
In fact you can keep everything, yeah, yeah
Except for me!

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

Throw your sticks and your stones,
Throw your bombs and your blows,
But you're not gonna break my soul

This is the part of me
That you're never gonna ever take away from me, no

星座们的性子

金牛座
金牛座聪明、逻辑能力强、思维能力强、求知欲强、不断进取。他们往往认为自己是个天才，即使本身不是，他们也比较欣赏天才般的人物。金牛座追求与众不同，所以千万别称金牛为怪胎，他会洋洋得意，不能自己，因为他才懒得跟这一群凡人一样，他宁愿当个异类，也不愿意被当个正常人一般看待。
无论在任何情况下，金牛座都希望自己坚若磐石。在遇到伤心事时，你会觉得她的反应好象很迟钝的。实际上不是这样，只因他们的涵养，不喜怒形于色罢了，嘴角依然可以露出看似甜甜的微笑，但是，也许她的心正在滴血，当她一个人独处时，她也会放声大哭，泪如雨下。
金牛座不善于改变，他喜欢的，就会一直喜欢；他不喜欢的，就永远都不会喜欢。-金牛座可以为朋友两肋插刀，可以做任何事。但他讨厌被别人利用，所以，如果你想与金牛座交朋友，就不要利用他。 如果他知道了，虽然嘴上不说，但是心里会开始慢慢讨厌你。
金牛座爱一个人总有一个固定的过程，开始表现得很热烈，往后就是平淡，再往后可能看不出来了。很多人会误解你的爱情是图一时新鲜，三分钟热度，其实不然。只是越往后，越深爱，然后就沉默。默默地关心你，默默地对你好……因为金牛座的爱是经得起沉淀的。
被金牛座爱上的人是幸福的，但你一定得懂：金牛性格很奇怪，有时候超爱说话，有时候可以一天不说话；高兴的时候，会拼命的说话，不高兴的时候，一句话也不说。金牛座不爱记仇，但谁对他好，谁对他不好，他还是记得很清楚的。
金牛其实很想念曾经，关于那些人、那些事，不是说忘掉就能忘掉。想念曾经肆无忌惮的笑。想念曾经的喜怒哀乐。想念曾经天真的誓言。想念曾经一切的一切。只是，如今我已释怀。谁都不会是谁的谁。谁也不会一辈子陪在谁的身边。金牛只是希望我们都好好的。好好的笑，好好的过，好好的一辈子。
摘自：@金牛座频道

十二星座的愛情堅持度

★白羊座愛情堅持程度：☆
他們的耐心原本就很不夠，一旦遇到不愉快的事情更是想轉頭就走，還有什麼撐不撐的問題。


★金牛座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆
一切都是命啊！金牛座的人一旦愛上了對方就很不容易改變，就算是不愉快，他也隻會說自己命苦，對方不分手的話，他也不分手。


★雙子座
愛情堅持程度：☆
對於愛情既沒有耐心又沒有毅力的雙子座，遇到不愉快的關係時，就馬上見異思遷，反正他們的經典名言就是隻在乎曾經擁有。


★巨蟹座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
這個很念舊的星座不會輕易說分手，就算對方對他再壞，他也會賴在那裡不肯走，並且認為這段關係一定還有救。


★獅子座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
他們的關係不容易切斷，如果這是一段不愉快的關係，他會想辦法讓這段關係變得愉快些，如果依然無用，他才會直接說分手。


★處女座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
就算對方對他不好，他也會先認為是自己有問題，然後才發現對方的態度真的惡劣，可是，就算到了這個地步他們也不會輕易分手的。


★天秤座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
他們考慮的很多、很仔細，也講求正當性，就算在一段相敬如賓的關係當中，他們也不會主動開口說分手，除非對方的把柄讓他抓到了，他才敢鼓起勇氣說分手。


★天蠍座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
不輕易分手的原因是因為天蠍的執念，天蠍總是相信自己有能力改變對方，或者你既然對我不好，我也不會輕易放過你，於是就這樣成了一段孽緣。


★射手座
愛情堅持程度：☆
三輪車跑得快，射手座跑得更快，一旦他發現對方臉臭臭的時候，他就已經溜得不見人影，就連再見都懶得說了！


★摩羯座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆
摩羯座講求實際，雖然是一段不愉快的關係，如果對方還有利用價值，那就繼續利用，如果沒有了說再見也無妨！


★水瓶座
愛情堅持程度：☆
當一段關係開始變得不愉快時，水瓶座就會開始見異思遷，不過他也會冷靜觀察，到底什麼時候適合說分手，耐心不太夠的他們通常會主動提分手。


★雙魚座
愛情堅持程度：☆☆☆☆☆
為什麼？為什麼？雙魚座遇上一段不愉快的關係時，就會開始不由自主的問自己和對方，沒有想過要分手，卻想要鬧得天翻地覆人仰馬翻，直到雙方都筋疲力盡還不放手。

What men want in a relationship

Written By: Freddiek70

There are a great number of articles out there about how women wished to be treated by men, but not so many articles about how men wish to be treated by women...

This is a general view and not a specific view so if you feel offended by elements in this article, that is not my intention. Please read it for its purpose and not as a personal slight towards women.

There is a great difference between what each sex thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want. What women think men want from them causes women to have resentment and anger toward men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them causes them much of the same feelings and frustration.

The thing is that we would realize that both men and women are human beings first and pretty much want the same thing.

1. Men want honest, timely, loving communication

Honest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity.
It can be extremely frustrating for men if left to decode what a woman is communicating.

Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up.

A tip for women: Men want and need straightforward, courageous communication without anger or criticism. One way to attract a man and build a satisfying relationship is to learn how to communicate your truth and needs effectively.

2. Men want self-sufficient, secure, confident women.
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.

On the other hand, men treasure time spent with a loving partner. Women think men don’t want women to need them. Women think men do not need or appreciate time spent together as a couple. Women believe that showing a man he is needed will turn him off and possibly make him run away.

A tip for women: Men want what women want — a whole partner. One powerful way to attract a man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfillment.

3. Men want a manipulation-free relationship.

Men want no manipulation of any kind. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.

Women think men want little or no communication, and the only way to get needs met is through manipulation. Women think men either need or want to be reminded that the relationship needs to move forward. Women think men don’t want or value praise and acknowledgment, and so tend to only verbalize criticism.

A tip for women: Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life. Learn to be aware of his timing and his time-line. Learn how to acknowledge and bestow praise.

4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.

Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.

Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.

A tip for women: Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.

5. Men want fidelity and a commitment to the relationship.

Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.

Women think that all men want is sex, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women think men cannot be trusted to be faithful. Women believe men do not want to work on a relationship; that when the going gets tough, they run.

A tip for women: Here is great news for those women who are resigned to the myth that all men cheat: infidelity and “a roaming eye” are as distasteful to men as they are to women. Men know how to build a wonderful relationship, and they know fidelity is the main ingredient.

 

6. Men want women who know how men need to be treated.
Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.

Women think men do not need them, do not value their opinion, their support, their praise. Women also think men do not care about many things important to women, which is why they criticize. Criticism is a way to verbalize resentment.

A tip for women: Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.

Making Love Versus Having Sex

Written By: A-R-Norman

Eddie Murphy was once quoted as saying that there is no difference between the act of lovemaking and the act of sex. Since then, I have had men say to me, "You know, why are women so hung up on the whole sex and making love idea-it's the same thing?"

I'd say yes and no. The physical act is the same. The emotional act is what is different, and in my humble opinion, until someone actually makes love to another human being, they will always think that the two are similar.

There have been countless times in my marriage where my husband and I just enjoyed one another's body's, as well as times when we spiritually connected via intercourse. The soulful bonding wasn't something that happened instantaneously either.

When my husband and I first met, I was very afraid to get close and my walls were up. The sex between us was always amazing, but I constantly held a part of myself back.

One night, I started opening up about a lot of my fears and worries, after which he lovingly reassured me. We started kissing and soon, we engaged in what I would have to say is the first love making session I have ever had in my life. Many glorious orgasms were had by yours truly, to the point where I developed a head ache due to the intensity (I learned this is not all that uncommon.) I cried from the sheer pleasure of it-he wiped my tears-we kissed, touched, laughed-continued on.

Afterwards, we lay in the afterglow, talking and connecting on such a deep level, I don't think words will ever describe it.

That my dears, was not sex. That was love making.

I fear what the Eddie Murphy's of the world don't know, is that emotional connection is just as important as a physical one. If you can only connect with a person on a superficial level, than everything you do with a person will be superficial, including sex.

That is not to say that every second of ever moment is going to be angelic ecstasy.

My partner and I fight, get involved with work and projects, deal with kids and family and tackle the daily grind - we also grab the occasional, unromantic quickie or two.

What I am talking about is intimacy-the feeling you get when you look into the eyes of another person and know they see you, and you them.

Such a thing is a wondrous blessing that is perhaps not bestowed upon everyone. For this amazing butterfly to land on your hand, you have to first believe it exists, then be willing to receive it, palm up, without reservation.

Until such time, most will go on thinking that sex can only be a physical act, while those in the know will continue to enjoy the beauty that can be found in the arms of someone who truly and completely cherishes you.

Clubbing.. ah siol~~~ :X

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